Welcome!
You make very good points in your post. Shows you're starting to THINK for yourself instead of letting others think for you. That's good. I will answer from my personal perspective, which is not shared by everyone. But that's why I like this forum. It's diversity gives us perspectives from every angle.
JWs like to say they are the way and the truth. However, who is the way and the truth, according to the Bible?
John 14:6
This gives us a major hint at, not WHERE to go, but WHOM to go to.
John 6:67, 68
Whom should we be learning FROM?
Matt 11:29
And who did he say would come AFTER him to teach us?
Matt 16:13
Some here are not believers. I still am. I have learned, however, that relying on men to teach me is problematic. Why? Keep in mind that the Pharisees were the teachers of the law among God's people. How many times did Christ condemn them? And what did he say about their teaching and why?
Matt 16:5-12
John gave a powerful witness regarding this.
1 John 2:26, 27
Unfortunately, this religion were were all part of (I still am for the moment) has soured many of us to religion in general, and that is understandable. Each person has to do what they feel is right. At the very least, if you are still a believer, and you believe in the power of prayer, then ask for understanding. Ask to be led into all truth. And be ready for the wild ride it will take you on.