I finally told my wife about a year ago. Same reaction as most here have had from their wives. I let it drop for awhile, but it kept coming up every few months. Apparently, she did go to the elders, but they told her that as long as I wasn't spreading anything, there wasn't anything they could do about it. Of course, she couldn't be specific with them as she never let me divulge to her things I discovered.
Our marriage is terrible. Not much fighting or arguing anymore. But the eye rolls, the inability to even make eye contact, the look of disgust when I walk into the room, the not sleeping in the same room... it's all terrible. I cannot help but feel that the storm is approaching.
Having read Daniel Genser's story, I have a feeling of shock and awe.
I know Daniel and Devon personally, as acquaintences. I worked with
them on an RBC project a few years back and even visited them in their
home. It's been a few years, though. For them to go from full-blown JWs to out in a matter of less than
a year is nothing more than incredible. I wish I had the chance to talk
with them both before they moved to the other side of the planet.