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Here something that shocked me how cluless I was as a JW. Here what I learned about how worldly oeople,chuches, teach their children. I never heard this at the KH growing up.
What would you do for your friend? So if a JW kid cussed the other kids would shun him as bad association. But the bible says we are to give our lives for our friends. So when they have probkems it would be hard to give your life for your friend by not talking with them. You help them.
A friend is someone you protect and give your life for his/hers.
Now that was never taught when I was growing up.
Also, another thing I have problems with. Patents are to teach their children how to survive in the world. How to make short and long term goals. College,move out,get a job. How to succeed.
JW parents just focus on WT and meetings. If a child becomes horny they should marry without experiencing living alone in their own apartment first! And they wonder why so many couples have problems!
Hopefully, you will have a better chance!
Friends should be able to disagree with each other. Say that is not cool yet still be a friend. But not the JW boy they just let the youth fall because a lack of planning. Setting goals and sticking to them. Not going out in service or giving talks tbose are not goals.