Unfortunately, being a "friend", visiting, helping, driving to meetings, studying- is what is done to "groom" a person to accept the "truth". The closeness is part of bringing a person into the hall, getting them baptized, maybe being a friend for a year or two, working with them out in service then things change. The love bombing you received when you first came to a meeting as a "person of the world" was another tactic to show "love to you. This fades over time and you find you are on your own, unless you go pioneering.- the ultimate goal for a single person - using your time and money and vehicle voluntarily to find more "friends"- unless of course,, you want to go to bethel to work as a volunteer, and sign a no monies contract.
You are wise to step back and take a hard look- this is a bait and switch deal - if you do anything wrong - once baptized, you can be disfellowshipped and then no one will speak with you until you "repent" and come back to the meetings.