Posts by truthlover123

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How do you deal with the loneliness after leaving?

by Whynot in

jw
friends

i'm having one of those days where i feel lonely and wish i had someone to just hang out with.

my husband got disfellowshipped 3 years ago and even though i didn't do anything wrong i was pushed away.

my so called "friends" decided to avoid me.

truthlover123

Whynot

Those feelings never leave, its a brainwash and you have to fight it each day. My son is 52, has nightmares still to this day, of armageddon - stress related anxieties he knows are from his childhood. You will hear many stories on this site about that but all each one can do is put one step ahead of the other. You need help- is there a non profit that offers help to parent caregivers in your area? Ask your doctor for a reliable centre to go to? You need respite help to allow you to go shopping or the spa for a few hours for your own sanity. Does your government provide help is such situations?

Two autistic children will drain you even though you love them sooo miuch

Keep touch with this board, it can be helpful, a good place to listen to others going through the same issues or close to it, that you are having

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Memorial Attendance ???

by Phizzy in

hi all, anybody any anecdotal or actual idea of how attendance numbers went this year ?.

there are hints that it is well down, but is it ?

and if it is, will the borg stop crowing about the attendance as they always have ?.

truthlover123

and only two from the neighbourhood attended - rest were pubs

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Memorial Attendance ???

by Phizzy in

hi all, anybody any anecdotal or actual idea of how attendance numbers went this year ?.

there are hints that it is well down, but is it ?

and if it is, will the borg stop crowing about the attendance as they always have ?.

truthlover123

Our cong was down by 23

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Why do so many that leave wind up coming back?!

by nowwhat? in

i have seen so many that have left.

and their life turned into a dumpster fire.

most do not live the average life of living in suburbs, raising a family.

truthlover123

In thinking about leaving, I regurgitate the old thought - Where do I go?... I will lose my friends. but now I am thinking, what friends? I thought that over and determined that I don't really have that many, it's a clickish congregation, age plays a factor in being asked out, as does being single, So really, all the nice smiles and how are you's in passing just don't make for good friends. I have been out of the hall for a month at a time with illnesses, but never received a call.- maybe 2 now that I think of it. Storms -- clean it myself or hire someone... so what am I doing there??

I have started to reconnect with my family and am having a ball.. they don't smoke, don't drink to excess and have great family get-togethers.....

Call me slow fade

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Sign JW Data Protection Form Or Else!

by AverageJoe1 in

in spain (and the rest of europe), the "improved" data protection laws come into force on 25th may 2018. this is a good thing and sadly america is still lagging behind; not surprising with their current president!.

watchtower legal department are hot on the case and have instructed elders to hand out the new "release" forms out to all the publishers in their groups, whilst making it clear to them that they won't have any privileges if they refuse to do so!.

note these points in the instructions:.

truthlover123

Could signing allow WTBTS to tell the law they will not release any records to them because they now speak for the pub (who committed child abuse) and pull out this legal document to prove it?

Would save society millions and stop bankruptcy...

Just a thought

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God wipes out humans/wickedness in Noah's Flood but somehow wickedness returns

by RULES & REGULATIONS in

genesis 6: 9-139 this is the account of noah and his family.noah was a righteous man, blameless among the people of his time, and he walked faithfully with god.

10 noah had three sons: shem, ham and japheth.11 now the earth was corrupt in god’s sight and was full of violence.12 god saw how corrupt the earth had become, for all the people on earth had corrupted their ways.

13 so god said to noah, “i am going to put an end to all people, for the earth is filled with violence because of them.

truthlover123

Noah and his family were all descendants of bad blood -- DNA - gene pool was diluted so it was impossible for that not to show up after the flood

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You MUST Sign the Data Collection Form "...obey...whether these appear sound from a strategic or human standpoint or not.¨"

by gone for good in

the many and complex issues surrounding the collection of person data and new laws aiming to protect individuals control of their own privacy, seem to have hatched about the same time as the governing body expressed their hope that it´s own 8 million would obey their order to "sign this form" effectively transfering total authority over privacy and data issues over to the borg.. what are your thoughts on this coincidence?.

zuckerberg lost billion$$ when people realized that he had prostituted their personal data and now wt wants the same signed access that he had to info that is $$$.... wt already owns all the real estate and now wants to own all the data.... it´s a current and global issue - please share your thought with the rest of us here.. .

truthlover123

So is this form that the WTBTS meant to be able suppress personal information of the pub should that pub be a child abuser?

Is the WTBTS doing this to actually say to the law they cannot hand over personal information due to the signing of this privacy info of a suspected abuser?

It would save the society from going bankrupt.... just a thought

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Personal Data Permission (Spain)

by paradiseseeker in

jw
friends

i had the meeting yesterday and there it was announced that there will be a new law passed in spain regarding personal data.

that law makes it compulsory for the wt spanish branch to collect a signed permission from the publishers to keep and utilize personal data.

no choice was given to us, we were just told to make sure we hand in our signed permissions before may 18th.

truthlover123

Would this "privacy Form" be required so as to protect child molesters from releasing information to police, lawyers, etc. because they now have signed over to the WTBTS to be their representative in keeping things quiet?

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July 2018 WT points

by The Fall Guy in

page 16, par.

18 carefully follow the latest directions.. do we faithfully follow the latest directions that jehovah has given us?

if so, we will not rely on always doing things the way we have done them in the past.

truthlover123

Inspired..anointed...direct from God..

Mistakes with generation, mistakes with 1914 and 1919

Mistakes with 1975

mistakes with blood - now allowed parts of blood- how many died?

Scripture says - a prophet's word is true or else it is not from God--NOT from GOd!!!!!

No inspiration, no anointed by HS, no direct from God... therefore

8 men playing a big mind game on millions

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Two witness rule: Stop using it, its not working on JWs!

by StephaneLaliberte in

most jws don't see this as a problem.

they reason that.

just like the jws, the police will not convict a pedophile over the story of one victim alone, there must be collaborative evidence.

truthlover123

So Jesus goes to Warwick... Meets with the GB and says "Let all the children come to me" - What do you think would happen? How many thousands of children would turn them in? FInd the GB bloodguilty - they have treated these children with contempt and most of all, the kids have lost the trust the society instilled in them at an early age - groomed to LOVE our brothers and sisters ....so to speak... by not hearing of their plight and the GB wanting to hid their money that they are sucking out of the pubs when the perp is found guilty in a court of law- these children are as lost souls due to the GB ignorance and GREED..and lie when it gets too hot, as Geoff Jackson did in Australia at the ARC where 1,006 perps were uncovered who were never reported to police and probably abused more than one child--that leads to several thousand abuses in Australia alone.. ole Jackies home land.

They have abused and discredited the God of the Scriptures-- blackened His name and hid behind one scripture that was used for adult crimes....who really wants to do door to door anymore???or attend meetings?? Memorial numbers down in hall this year.....

Clergy-pentitant prov is being rescinded in some states- hopefully more will follow