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  Australia: Jehovah’s Witnesses to join redress scheme for child sexual abuse survivors

  by yalbmert99 in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  australia: jehovah’s witnesses to join redress scheme for child sexual abuse survivors.

  https://thenewdaily.com.au/news/2021/03/03/jehovahs-witnesses-redress-scheme/.

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  Fadeaway1962

  Thanks

  It will be interesting to see how they word the apology to the victims and survivors.

  Does that mean that ARC is no longer a apostate lie ?
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  When was your last Kingdom Hall meeting?

  by RULES & REGULATIONS in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i stopped going to kingdom hall meetings about nine years ago.

  i was fading for the longest time, refused to go out in field service, dropped out of the ministry school talks, no longer answered at the watchtower study, arrived at the meetings the last second, and left as soon as possible.

  i couldn't take attending the meetings any longer.

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  Fadeaway1962

  Because of leaving a abusive marriage as the victim I was asked to go to the sister congregation sharing the same hall about two years ago and started fading straight away , because I walked away from the marriage I was veiwed as a bad association ,at the start someone did ask i just made a excuse and over time extended the length of time between meetings and nobody really bothered which made it easier to fadeaway.
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  When was your last Kingdom Hall meeting?

  by RULES & REGULATIONS in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i stopped going to kingdom hall meetings about nine years ago.

  i was fading for the longest time, refused to go out in field service, dropped out of the ministry school talks, no longer answered at the watchtower study, arrived at the meetings the last second, and left as soon as possible.

  i couldn't take attending the meetings any longer.

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  Fadeaway1962

  2-3 weeks before the lockdown ,I was attending a meeting about every 6 weeks or so but I would arrive late and leave early ,I just couldn't listen to the crap anymore ,so never got any logins for zoom and I never told the elders my address or mobile number and those that had my number I blocked them I'm surprised I don't really miss anyone at the hall , still have contact with family members as they live some distance away but they must have an idea because they know ones in my former congregation's .

  Never going back to the cult
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  Is there a renewed iemphasis on the "go bag" in the past mont or so?

  by nonjwspouse in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  my soon to be ex moved out over a year ago.

  he left most of his things here ( i guess he thinks of my house as his personal storage unit).

  one thing he left was his survival backpack, i assume his "go bag".

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  Fadeaway1962

  The go bag a gone bag now 😁
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  Since Myself and our sons left the JW cult, My wife has been M.I.A has a mom and wife

  by goingthruthemotions in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i would like to get some feed back from pomo's who's spouse is still pimi.

  since myself and our son's left the jw cult.

  my wife has been m.i.a has a mom and a wife.

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  Fadeaway1962

  Sorry for your situation at present , from your previous post this behaviour has been going on for years.

  This is clearly unreasonable behaviour on the part of your wife towards yourself and your boys,yes hiding away from yourself in the bedroom could be a symptom of depression but it could also be silent treatment in order to punish yourself and your boys and is a form of domestic abuse (I'm a survivor of domestic abuse at the hand of my JW wife and she would do that to punish and control me ) please consider speaking to a marriage counselor or a domestic abuse agency for their advice and support .

  For you and your boys and your mental and physical health please seek help and advice from trained professionals for the best help and advice.

  Take care and my thoughts are with yourself and your boys.
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  What Song Reminds You The Most of Your JW Experience?

  by Sea Breeze in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  what song takes you back there?.

  here's mine: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=brb7rupqtsg&ab_channel=danielaaguilar.

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  Fadeaway1962

  We Gotta get out of this place.

  There's a better life for me and you.

  THE ANIMALS
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  Jehovah’s Witnesses Facing Norway Data Regulator’s Privacy Audit

  by yalbmert99 in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  jehovah’s witnesses facing norway data regulator’s privacy audit.

  https://news.bloomberglaw.com/privacy-and-data-security/jehovahs-witnesses-facing-norway-data-regulators-privacy-audit.

  https://www.nrk.no/dokumentar/datatilsynet-opnar-sak-mot-jehovas-vitner-etter-brennpunkt-dokumentar-1.15377099.

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  Fadeaway1962

  Thanks

  Bet the paper shredders are working double time .
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  Pioneers, Elder's Wives most self righteous. Etc.

  by Overrated in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  as a jw did you have a pioneer sister/elder's wife who was the biggest busybody, self righteous, arrogant pus in the circuit?

  who would look down on others and treat people like crap.. without giving to much away, i experienced one that knew everyone in circuit.

  and if she or her husband saw or heard something they didn't like it was " you know what the bible says" regardless if it was in there or not.

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  Fadeaway1962

  My wee sister , been to ske , construction projects ,we all call her elder (her name) she sends us all JW stuff to encourage us even though my bro who is a elder ,and her elder husband whom she pushed encouraged to reach out just let's her .
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  Are faders like me just cowards? Should I show my face?

  by Witness 007 in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i feel bad i just faded away and did not "come out" as an apostate hater.

  my mum died refusing blood and still i hang back my wife still has witness friends and goes to the memorial every year..

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  Fadeaway1962

  A Great crowd of faders out there ,why because WE care for our family's and want even limited association with them even though they would immediately shun us if we openly admit our views of the org and it's teaching's .

  So we're not cowards we are caring people.
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  Anyone notice how when some of us older ones were in the cult.......

  by mickbobcat in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  when i was a kid in the late sixties the type of books we would study was very intense compared to the bull shit pablum that they put out today?

  i mean the finished mystery and others now its these stupid books that don't dive deep into the beliefs.

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  Fadeaway1962

  W/tower study's about types and anti types.

  Abrahamic ,davidic , messianic and the kingdom covenant's , not sure if there was another one or they overlap.