Dutchie, For all of the passages you quote, I could equally quote passages that say bad things will happen to men when they disobey God. For example, your quote in Genesis about childbirth fails to include the curse on men that he will toil hard all his life and than he will die. To me that does not sound like unequal treatment.
I can also quote passages that show woman are treated with respect and dignity. For example:
Proverbs 31:10 -31 A wife of Noble character She is worth far more than rubies; She is clothed with strength and dignity; She speaks with wisdom; Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also and he praises her; Give her the reward she has earned and let her works bring her praise at the city gate
John 8:4- -11 - Woman caught in the act of Adultry and Jesus says that whoever is without sin let him cast the first stone. He saves her life and than does not condemn her
1Peter 3:7- Husbands in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner(meaning physically weaker) as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life
Hebrews 13:4- Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure. for God will judge the adultrer and the sexually immoral (This applies equally to men and women)
Ephesians 5:25- Husbands love your wives just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her....In the same way husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself... For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and become united to his wife for the two will become one flesh
Genesis 2:24- For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh
Genesis 24:66- Isaac brought her into the tent of his mother Sarah and he married Rebekah. So she became his wife and he loved her
Exodus 20:17 Thou shall not covet your neighbors wife
Your examples must be read in their context. For example Isaiah 3:16 is referring to the wrath of God over the entire people of Isreal in part for their treatment of the poor. It it referring to the women having jewels and finer things at the expense of not taking care of the poor. It also says that the men will be killed. Matthew 18:25 is in the middle of a parable wher the end result is that the king took pity on the man and wiped out his debt. That same man failed to take pity on someone else who owed him less and the man was punished for his lack of compassion. It is not a lesson on how to treat women.
A full reading of the Bible and its teachings reflect that women are treated with dignity, respect and love. They are punished just like men for their wrongdoing and are praised for their faithfullness. They are to be treated by thier husbands with unselfishness and they are to be protected and admired. How can that be bad?
God Bless