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  You are what you drink.... :-)

  by riz in

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  seven new york city bartenders were asked if they could nail a woman's personality based on what she drinks.

  though interviewed separately, they concurred on almost all counts.. the results:.

  drink: beer.

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  Puffs, I don't know what it makes you either...maybe outnfree can help you out with that as she did me

  What I do know is that I'd rather be nursing a drink right now instead of nursing this damn cold! Arrrrrggghhhh!!!!!!!

  Dana
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  You are what you drink.... :-)

  by riz in

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  seven new york city bartenders were asked if they could nail a woman's personality based on what she drinks.

  though interviewed separately, they concurred on almost all counts.. the results:.

  drink: beer.

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  LOLOL Out!

  Who you callin' a slacker??!! I'll have you know I've emptied the dishwasher finally! AND looked up an article on racism on the 'net. Surely that's enough work for one day??!! Sheesh!

  Dana
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  You are what you drink.... :-)

  by riz in

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  seven new york city bartenders were asked if they could nail a woman's personality based on what she drinks.

  though interviewed separately, they concurred on almost all counts.. the results:.

  drink: beer.

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  LMAO Riz

  Back in my drinking days, I was a beer/margarita/champagne drinker...what the hell does that make me??!!

  Dana
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  10 yrs ago today at 1pm est

  by WildHorses in

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  i was in the hospital delivering my little girl.

  happy birthday nikki!

  mama loves you!!

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  Happy Birthday Nikki!

  I have a 10 year old too Lilacs, my son. I can't believe it's been 10 years!

  Dana
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  Blood Card Scans for 2001, 2002

  by AlanF in

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  here are scans of the "advance medical directive" (blood card) for 2001 and 2002. also shown is the "identity card" for minors for 2002.. note that the watchtower society cancelled distribution of the 2002 cards, and instructed that jws use the 2001 card until further notice.. card for 2001, page 2:.

  card for 2002, page 2:.

  card for 2002, page 1:.

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  Alan,

  Thanks for posting these. It's really hard for me to believe that, at one time, I might have ("might" being the operative word here!) sacrificed one of my children to this insane policy. As it was, I did come very close to losing my sister to it. It totally gives me the willies when I think about it!

  Praise dog I didn't, praise dog all day long!

  Dana
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  First Post

  by DINKY in

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  hey guys!

  i've been lurking for 2 yrs and finally decided to post.

  seems like y'all need some new blood around here.

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  safe4kids

  Hi Dinky, and welcome.

  In some respects, your story sounds similar to mine. It's good to have you here, and posting. Look forward to getting to know you better

  Dana
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  You know you're aging and....

  by safe4kids in

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  your priorities have changed when you totally agree with this ultimate fantasy..... http://www.gotlaughs.com/funpages/ultimate.cfm.

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  dana

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  your priorities have changed when you totally agree with this ultimate fantasy....

  http://www.gotlaughs.com/funpages/ultimate.cfm

  Dana
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  My day so far....

  by safe4kids in

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  flying down the interstate, on my way to class (late again!

  ) when i notice this strange smell in my van...gets worse the closer i get to school.

  so i turn around and head back down the interstate towards home, knowing that something is wrong (i'm smart that way).

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  Larc,

  Thanks! That's high praise, coming from you . Glad you enjoyed it.

  Seeker ,

  I wish the same for your Valentine's day!!

  Riz,
  LMAO!! Don't I wish!!

  Ok, here's the car...soon to be leaving my possession
  
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  I need divorce advice !!!

  by nightwing02 in

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  neither my wife or i have committed adultery ,we have just grown apart and annoy each other to death what shall i do?

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  Nightwing,

  I don't think that any of us here are qualified to tell you what you *should* do. However, having gone through a divorce, with kids, I can share my thoughts and feelings.

  I do believe that marriages are worth the effort to save, if at all possible. By that, I mean that if there is any chance of both parties finding happiness in the marriage again, then steps can be taken to accomplish that. Counseling is certainly a good route to go, if you're both interested in salvaging the relationship.

  Staying together ONLY because of children is not a good idea, imo. Kids are extremely perceptive and have usually picked up on problems, sometimes long before the adults have. In my situation, the tension in our family was so palpable, you could cut it with a knife. I tried everything I could think of to save the marriage, but I think we had left it too long. It also takes commitment on the part of BOTH spouses; if only one is trying, it won't work. I finally had to decide if I really wanted my children to constantly be in a tension-filled environment and did I want them thinking "This is what a marriage is like." The answers to both of those questions was an unequivocal NO.

  We separated for awhile and both of us came to the realization that what once was, would never be again. Yes, it was extremely painful; yes, my children were hurt a great deal, which I hated!!! But I think it was best for all of us. I suppose only time will tell for sure. As Wendy said, though, if you have children together, it is vital that you not give vent to anger and bitterness about the other parent. Counseling for them, as well, is a good idea.

  At this point, divorced for more than a year and having been apart for about 2 and a half years, my ex and I are pretty good friends and are able to maintain a supportive and cooperative relationship with each other that our kids have benefitted greatly from.

  Good luck to you; I wish you all the best.

  Dana
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  My day so far....

  by safe4kids in

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  flying down the interstate, on my way to class (late again!

  ) when i notice this strange smell in my van...gets worse the closer i get to school.

  so i turn around and head back down the interstate towards home, knowing that something is wrong (i'm smart that way).

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  Ohhh myyyy, I'm so tired! I've been beating the men off all day! Wow, this car is cool.

  Ok, ok, so that's just my fantasy and I haven't really had to fend off the guys, but a girl can dream, can't she??

  Between (((hugs)))backatcha . Thanks for your kind words...I only wish that I could apply that type of attitude towards everything in my life, but hey, I'm working on it.

  Tracy, sorry no, I hafta give the car back tomorrow...but not before I take Justin to the doctor in Lakeland...heheheheh But I'll take a picture if you'd like so you can at least see what ya missed!

  Dana