Think of that Pakistani girl who was shot for advocating schools for girls. Same type of God.
Another rule, if a brother, even a child, makes an incorrect comment in a public meeting, a sister cannot be called on to correct him. A sister cant correct a brother, even if she is 70 years his senior and well respected in the congo.
Your relationship is between you and your wife, nobodies business what its like besides you two.
If you insist on exploring her submissive side I recommend you keep it in the realm of kink and out of your daily life :)