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  Need advice. My inactive jw husband has been lured back.

  by ingimar in

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  File for divorce.
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  So if you tell a JW they were raised in a cult...

  by NeverKnew in

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  yeah...it was wrong.

  i got upset and blurted this truth.

  seems kinda screwy that telling someone a truth could be wrong.

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  Hi Never Knew,

  Sorry to hear about this. I think you have made some assumptions here- but maybe look at it this way:

  You could ask your Boyfriend if there is anything the organization could do that would cause him doubts.

  The problem is, any faults or inconsistencies he attributes to IMPERFECT MEN and any good he attribute to being GODS ONLY CHOSEN PEOPLE.

  As long as you go poining out those inconsistencies he has a thought stopping cliche- acually several. You might trigger his awareness of his own indoctrinated mental process by asking him if there is any other possibility.

  It might be an interesting thought experiment to ask him if there is anything that would cause him to doubt. You might need to wait till the defenses drop. In the heat of the moment, its going to be so emotional for you both, and he will just be desperate to block your thinking.

  I think rather than say, IT IS A CULT (of course it is) you might have better luck with WHAT IF questions. What if this is not true.
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  Good Reasons To Hate Every Weak And Ex-Jehovah Witness.

  by AuntConnie in

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  1. my husband's time is finite, it's wasted on spouses arguing over money, sex or family mattters with stupid home visits.. .

  i hate people's constant open hand for money, it's the weak individuals asking others to pull their weight.

  my family worked extra hours instead of begging the strong members for district assembly money, cat food for seven cats or tiny little rag-a-muffins weiner dogs.. .

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  Tia Connie,

  Do you like Martinis
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  Lovefest

  by perfect1 in

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  i love you all right now.

  you have collectively grown on me.. .

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  People:

  It will be the New Year!

  Life goes on!

  Hooray!

  Though my heart is grieved for those fearful family who long for THE END,

  A NEW YEAR smiles at us who look fearlessly forward!

  The world isnt ending!

  Our poor delusional friends!

  Lets celebrate!
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  New Here! So many questions! :)

  by TeenageInsider in

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  hey everyone!

  i'm so happy that i finnally joined i just turned 17 and i have so many questions about the org.. i've been lurking around the site for months, and love reading experiences about bethel, and all the hypocricy that the wtbts spews out.. so i finally joined in and hope to make some great friends.. a little about me:.

  im male, 17, and i am a born-in, so this is all i know... i was baptised at age 13 i beleive.... my gramma, and grampa and mom , and sisters and brothers, are all jw's.

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  Hi Teenager!

  Think about going to college!

  Love,

  Perfect1
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  JW's in a sports bar

  by pontoon in

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  so i'm 2000+ miles from home on a mission for work.

  out to lunch with three other guys from the company, in a sports bar on a sunday about 3:00-4:00 pm.

  crowded, not a roudy place, nice.

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  cheapskates.
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  WT Society Still Lies to JW's into Believing they Live Forever - 12/15 WT

  by flipper in

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  this quote was just so annoying and unbelievable it stunk the pages right up.

  but doesn't all the wt rhetoric stink it up ?

  in the article titled, " find real success in life " on pg.

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  Liars lie.
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  Does it get boring....

  by FaceTheFacts in

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  does it become boring/monotonous reading thread after thread about how terrible the gb is and how much of a cult jws are...etc.

  etc.?.

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  people like you keep it entertaining.
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  Your earliest doubt?

  by Apognophos in

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  this might be an unfair question for those who have been out of the organization for decades, but i'm wondering if any of you remember your earliest doubt -- maybe something odd that occurred to you as a kid (if you were a jw then).

  please try to limit to two doubts at the most :-).

  i think my first "doubt" was simply realizing that at the time of the flood, every animal that wasn't in the ark died (well, besides the fish, supposedly).

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  The fact that my classmates, 13 years old, some of whom believed strongly in God, would be killed, just cause they werent witnesses.

  Then I said Ididnt believe in a God that would do that, but if he did exist I wanted nothing to do withsuch a creep.

  Go 13 year old me!
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  Who did jesus look like, his mom or his dad?

  by Honeybucket in

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  if jesus was immaculate, what would his dna and alleles look like?

  would he be the spitting image of mary?.

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