threatening to kickout a child (under 18) over ornaments is abuse.
Parents focusing attention on a teenager's piercings, etc, are not parenting.
Be supportive and available.
JW's think they can say, "Not in my house." Legally, if they are parents and guardians, they are responsible for the welfare of the child.
My brother became homeless once kicked out and has never recovered.
My Dad thought he was teaching him to "Be a man."
Kicking out is for serious drug habits or ongoing theft/ vandalism. Not f@#ing pierced ears that she will get tired of eventually.
I think JW parents threaten to kick out because they basically beleive they are imitating God who would definitely lovingly annihilate you if you disobey and lovingly kicked out Adam and Eve and lovingly will destroy 6.9 billion people.
BS.
Also because they realize they have no real power using fear tactics to control and have obedience.
Love is way more difficult than saying my way or the highway.