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  One of the things I disliked about moving to a new congregation

  by Jules Saturn in

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  i hope i’m not the only one who experienced this but i hated it when we moved to a new congregation and another family from the congregation we were in would move to the same congregation basically following us.

  and it was annoying because i always felt like there was this competition over privileges and participation during the meetings with this particular family.

  it was so annoying.

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  moreconfusedthanever

  Creepy much? Maybe your family were their only friends and they couldn't bear to be in the cult without you. Lol.
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  Confused

  by Kas12 in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i am 12 years old and im confused because my mam is leaving the truth after 12 years and i want to celebrate xmas but she still doesnt believe that should do it coz even though shes realised society has lied about things she still believes in god.

  im unsure whether i believe in god or not but i havent really looked into it much ..

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  moreconfusedthanever

  Maybe you could ask to join her in her research and do it together. Inform yourself.
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  1st month of fading

  by Jrjw in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i'm nearly at the end of my first month of becoming inactive.

  only my daughter knows.

  i've had a cold half of the month so no questions or pressure has been put on me yet.

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  moreconfusedthanever

  Everyone is different. In my case, I just stopped going. No one has come to check on me. They ask my mother about me at the hall but none of my "friends" have called or even text me.

  The elders only ring right before a CO visit although they did come on a shepherding call over a year ago. We screen our calls s they are easily avoided as they don't leave messages.

  We have been in the same congregation for over 40 years and haven't been to a meeting now in 2 1/2 years. Haven't needed to move house.
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  The Exponential Growth In Technology Spell A Rapid End For Bronze Age Diety Cults Like The Watchtower

  by Brokeback Watchtower in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  as information floods the airwaves and available at one's finger tips in privacy.

  thanks to incognito browsers one can do a search and keep it from family members with ease.

  pretty soon one should be able to go to any kingdom hall and see very few youths only long time older ones.

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  moreconfusedthanever

  When we were growing up if you wanted to know something you needed to go to the library or read the encyclopedia if you were fortunate enough to have one. We were encouraged to use awake articles to complete school assignments as they had already done the research.

  The internet and this age of information at your fingertips is certainly going to be a factor in cult membership numbers.
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  Crisis of conscience

  by Jrjw in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  hi everyone.

  what does anyone think of the crisis of conscience book?

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  moreconfusedthanever

  I loved that book. Read it in two days.

  He gave his entire life to them. Sacrificed much in the name of serving Jehovah.

  just because he wouldn't agree with everything they wrote they went on a witch Hunt to find some way to ensure his knowledge of the inner workings stay secret. They disfellowshiped him and then give him a terrible name in the JW community.

  The thing that got me was the way they make decisions on rules. 2/3 majority votes on issues that actually do mean life or death and no prayers to Jehovah on the matter. The blind followers still believe that they come together weekly to prayerfully seek guidance.

  They are so far from Christian.
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  What Made You Decide To Finally Leave The Organization?

  by minimus in

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  was there one certain event or was it more a cumulative thing?.

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  My waking was a slow process. The lack of love in the congregation and then always being told "it's not Jehovah doing it to you so don't punish him by taking away your worship."

  I told my mother years ago that Jehovah is not at the kingdom hall. He couldn't be.

  The new bible bothered me, the change in the blood stance, the overlapping generation.

  Having children and explaining what we believe to them and it sounding ridiculous to me was what made me finally decide never to return. I didn't want my children to grow up in the life of fear and solitude like I did.
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  What's their game?

  by punkofnice in

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  blimey o'reilly, what are those blokes up to?.

  the governing body seem to pull 'new light(tm)' out of their backsides when they can save money.

  then, out of the blue comes some weird crap that will lead to the jobos getting spat at.. what is the gov bods game?

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  moreconfusedthanever

  Pardon my ignorance but to what out of the blue crap are you referring? What have I missed?
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  I know this shouldn’t bother me...but

  by MTSman in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  so i woke up this morning with nothing planned for the day.

  i rolled out of bed around 9am and went to local mcky ds to get some breakfast, and lord and behold there was a group of jdubs sitting around eating and sipping on coffee, probable counting time.

  anyway, i glanced over and recognized all of them and they glanced back at me.

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  moreconfusedthanever

  I would have walked up to them with a big smile and said "good morning. bit early for the morning tea break isn't it?"

  It is very infuriating when you get treated like second class by a bunch of pretenders but you are the lucky one because you are free.
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  Find Local Friends

  by BiggerRed in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i am located in kentucky.

  i have faded out of the watchtower and i am just learning the truth about the truth.

  i am trying to find new friends to talk to.

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  moreconfusedthanever

  Welcome! Beth Sarim was a mansion that Rutherford had built for David, Abraham etc to live in when they were due to return in 1925.

  They didn't come so Rutherford lived in it instead.

  Crisis of Conscience is an excellent read. It is classed s apostate literature so if your wife is "in" she may not want to read it. Tread carefully.
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  So here is my long winded story....

  by GTSfromSY in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  thanks for the warm greetings all.

  wow!

  i am very moved, really.

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  moreconfusedthanever

  Welcome. Thanks for sharing your story. I too look forward to the link.