I remember those talks well, too.
I also remember having an elder come up to me shortly after we announced that we were expecting our third child (planned!), obviously very disturbed that we ignored theocratic advice. He said that the pregnancy had to have been an "accident" (how I despise that term!) because nobody who took the scriptures seriously would be stupid enough to PLAN to have a baby so close to Armageddon.
I wanted to spit in his self-righteous face!!
In retrospect, I wonder how many JW women experience post-natal depression as a result of this kind of verbal/psychological abuse from "the friends"?? I had it with two of my three children....
Love, Scully