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Posts by Scully
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19I'd like to talk to some ex-JW couples
by Mad Sweeney ini know a few of the guys here started to fade and managed to bring their wives and family along on the exit.
i will be sending some of you a pm or fb message some time soon.. are there any ex-dub ladies here who managed to influence your husband to re-examine and eventually quit the borg?.
it is very difficult to get to the genuine personality of an indoctrinated jw but if anyone can do it, a loving spouse can.
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Sister are not to talk to the brothers alone
by life is to short inok this just hit me the other day.. i was a sister in my early 40 an adult.
a very bad child molester moved into the hall, and was starting to be used.
i knew of his background and could not stand him or stand to see him gaining the apporval of the elders and congregation.
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Scully
Your best bet would have been to notify the police of the child molester's whereabouts and activities.
You would have remained anonymous, and the Elders™ would have had to answer some very uncomfortable questions.... maybe even get a lawyer to defend themselves.
Regarding "Sisters™ are not to talk to the Brothers™ alone" - I tend to agree, but not for the stupid sexual misconduct bullshit they think. When confronting someone over a legal matter (and aiding and abetting a child molester is definitely a legal matter) you need a witness to the conversation who can corroborate who was present, what was said and what the response was. It is totally a matter of CYA.
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I'd like to talk to some ex-JW couples
by Mad Sweeney ini know a few of the guys here started to fade and managed to bring their wives and family along on the exit.
i will be sending some of you a pm or fb message some time soon.. are there any ex-dub ladies here who managed to influence your husband to re-examine and eventually quit the borg?.
it is very difficult to get to the genuine personality of an indoctrinated jw but if anyone can do it, a loving spouse can.
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Scully
I wanted to leave for almost a year before I even considered discussing it with Mr Scully.
I'd take the children with me to the library and check out books on the topics of social psychology, mind control, brainwashing and propaganda, trying to deal with the cognitive dissonance of believing that I was not a victim of brainwashing / mind control (because that's what the WTS said), and the painful realization that my worst fears were true. I also started watching a Social Psychology course on the university channel and became fascinated with the inner workings of the manipulative nature of JWs.
The approach I finally decided to take with Mr Scully was similar to the one that was used in the Live Forever book - how it would be a huge betrayal of trust to find out that the JW leadership had lied to us. Then we looked up the definition of the word "lie" in the Insight volumes. The phrase "it is not necessary to disclose truthful information to people who are not entitled to it" blew him away once he realized that regular R&F JWs could be included in that group of "people who are not entitled" to honesty, especially once we started turning up one example after another of dishonesty within the Organization™, and dishonesty as a lifestyle choice of many of the JWs we knew.
It took about 6 months' worth of breadcrumbs, but eventually he said he was fed up with the dishonesty in the religion, and we started making an exit plan.
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have i been banned?
by elderelite inseems silly to ask since i am posting a new thread but i cant loggin from the location i typically use.
this computer just happened to have me saved as logged in......
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Scully
Sometimes your cookies can get corrupted - it's happened to me and a few others.
Try deleting your JWN related cookies and login again.
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Obituary / Infomercial?? The first I've ever seen. How about you?
by FatFreek 2005 inthis morning's local paper carried the obituary of a local musician, designer, etc., whose memorial will be some 14 miles from where we live.
what caught my eye is the advertisement within the body (no pun intended) of the obituary.
apparently the family doesn't want this man's passing to go without a bit of commercial leverage.
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Scully
If not out of place, then certainly in poor taste.
Although there were some nice tribute-like pages on the website regarding his work and passion for what he did... still think it's tacky to direct people to the commercial page.
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Rainbows
by Aussie Oz inwe had the most fantastic rainbow here yesterday, probably the most solid colored one i have ever seen.
it reminded me that jehovah would never again flood the earth... not!.
i remarked to my daughter that the rainbow reminded me that the genesis account was a myth like the aboriginal dream times...rainbows are science, sunlight, rain mist/drops and refracted light.. i said, after it had rained and the sun came out, no matter whether 'god' was involved or not, there was going to be a rainbow.
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Scully
Hi Aussie Oz
I'm actually in the midst of reading Unweaving the Rainbow by Richard Dawkins. I think you and your daughter might enjoy it. Dawkins discusses how it is still possible to enjoy the beauty and diversity of nature, even once things are understood scientifically.
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2 months dating and
by Dudu ini would like to buy him a gift for the 2 months.... nothing cheese or that would mean toooooo much, .... im lost lol some advice?
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Scully
Dudu made it clear that she's a 29 year old virgin and has been dating this guy for 2 months.
She also says that she's 32 and single and very lonely. Does her boyfriend know?
I still can't figure out how a person can be 29 and 32 at the same time. Any guesses??
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Scully
Thanks, Outlaw! I thought so!!
shamus, you kwazy monkey! xo
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DO NOT have children in this system!!
by What Now? ingrowing up, this is something that my other always told me.
i've had several conversations with older sisters who have said that if they could do things over, they wouldn't have had children.
other couples my own age are horrified at the thought of raising children in "this system".
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Scully
it must suck to be elderly and not have adult offspring provide assistance.
On the other hand, if you didn't have offspring, you could probably afford to pay for the kind of assistance you need, without having to lay guilt trips on anyone.
My youngest's present attitude has me rather terrified of the kind of old age home she'd pick for me.
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Do they announce when a pioneer steps down at your hall?
by Evidently Apostate induring the announcements they stop to bring up an elder and he states " hairy mary is no longer a pioneer" (not a real name) in a tone very similar to a disfellowshipping.
i have heard it twice now but only from the hall my wife attends now.. anyone else hear of this?.
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morbidzbaby
I must speak to his WIFE about my children and not him because it's "inappropriate for us to be talking to each other now because we are no longer married
You probably know this already, but that's complete and utter bullshit on his part. They're HIS children, and you are their mother, he is their father. It is totally appropriate for the two of you to communicate about your children and co-parenting with him. His new wife must either be an idiot or totally insecure about you being in contact with him.