Posts by Scully

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Question about blood

by XPeterX in

some jw's accept certain plasma fractions.if the plasma is extracted from human blood then who's blood is it that they use?jw's won't donate blood.do they let others donate blood instead?wtf.

Scully

Blood fractions refer to minute quantities of blood components that are collected from large donor pools.

For example, Anti-D (Win-Rho, Rho-Gam) is administered to Rh-negative women during and after pregnancy to prevent hemolytic disease of the newborn in subsequent pregnancies. The amount administered is about 2.5 mL (½ teaspoon), but it takes thousands of donors who are isoimmune (Rh-negative and exposed to Rh-positive blood and have developed the Rh antibodies) to synthesize the blood product. It is okay for a JW woman to take Anti-D, or rather it is up to her (her husband's?) Conscience™.

Having a baby with hemolytic disease of the newborn is awful. Even though we can treat the baby with massive phototherapy from the instant it is delivered, it can take a long time for the baby to get better, and in the meantime, the baby is separated from its mother. Sometimes though the phototherapy treatment isn't enough and exchange transfusions are needed so the baby won't die of oxygen deprivation as his red blood cells die off faster than they can be made. The other potential outcome without treatment is severe brain damage from bilirubin (a by-product of red blood cell breakdown). Any parent who would knowingly risk their baby's life like this by not taking a relatively simple precaution deserves to have child protective services all over their stupid asses.

And yes, you are correct, a JW woman who has become isoimmunized could potentially help other women protect their children from this horrible fate by donating their precious antibodies, but the WTS forbids it.

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guilty mate (need Blondie)

by scary21 in

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friends

jw always speak of the innocent mate is free to remarry.

how about this...jw man divorces his jw wife after a very very short period of time... (.wife is bummed ).. before his marriage to her.he had never been married and does not plan.

to ever marry again .

Scully

I'm actually surprised that a JW male was allowed to divorce his wife without grounds, after a very brief marriage, just rejected her outright?? And the Elders™ didn't get all up in their business before that??

How much you wanna bet that he plays for the other team?

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That is my girlfriend

by Iamallcool in

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friends

http://www.myfoxatlanta.com/story/19206036/officers-arrest-topless-driver .

Scully

Iamallcool

That is NOT what those two ladies are saying to you.

Hint: they look like they've just been offered a $h!t sandwich.

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That is my girlfriend

by Iamallcool in

jw
friends

http://www.myfoxatlanta.com/story/19206036/officers-arrest-topless-driver .

Scully

Where did you meet her? In jail?

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EX JW's Retro

by Victor_E in

this is a test to see how retro you are.. do you remember?.

doc bob.

watchtower observer.

Scully

Hey, Victor, I remember you *and* Philia.

How have you been?

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Do Elders Have A Reasonable Expectation Of Privacy During Judicial Committees?

by DT in

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friends

i should point out that i'm not a lawyer and i'm not qualified to give legal advice.. there has been much discussion about judicial committees lately and how to handle and possibly record them.. naturally, the question of the legality of recording judicial committees is a concern.

my understanding of the law in the u.s. is that it is legal to record private conversations in most states provided at least one party consents to the recording.

in the other states, it is required to get the consent of all parties to record a private conversation.. however, it would be reasonable to ask whether or not a judicial committee is a private conversation and whether the elders have a reasonable expectation of privacy.

Scully

The Constitution in Canada allows an individual the right to counsel in any judicial tribunal. Cults try to force you to waive that right by invoking rules that require you to submit to such meetings without representation or witnesses who can corroborate your version of events.

These judicial tribunals - especially ones like Judicial Committees™ - don't want someone there who can tell you that you are not required to answer such-and-such question or to protect your rights and freedoms. Their starting point is "You are accused of insert DFing offense hereand you are guilty until you prove your innocence."

In fact, you could very well be innocent, but you are becoming a problem, so we will intimidate you, humiliate you, compel you to answer questions about your underwear, and ultimately make you the subject of malicious gossip among the JWs, including your immediate family, your best friends and everyone you've ever known who is a JW.

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DO THREE ELDER'S MEAN IT IS JUDICIAL?!?

by DATA-DOG in

i have a friend who met with a couple of elders recently and i was told things went well, no issues.

well a couple weeks later they stopped by my friends place, ( just to say hi ) right before they left they said, " hey can we meet again?

my friend said, " sure ".

Scully

Two Elders™ = two eyewitnesses

Three Elders™ = Judicial Committee™

Tell him to go with two or more other people, to even up the odds. If they say they want your friend, alone, your friend can counter with, "Hey, you led me to believe we were just having a friendly conversation. Why do you want to gang up on me? Why can't my friends participate?"

As long as your friend always brings other people to these "meetings", and insists on their participation, the Elders™ won't be able to gang up on him.

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Why would you make an 83 yr old woman go out in service????

by loosie in

i am trying to contact my mothers elders in riverside ca, because my mother doesn't talk to her family.

since that means at least 12 phone calls to various kh's i thought i'd start with my aunt to see what the name of the congegation is.

unfortunatly she didn't know.

Scully

They need people like her so they can continue to browbeat the younger ablebodied JWs who aren't doing as much.

"Sister™ So-and-so is 83 years old. Sometimes she faints while she goes Door-To-Door™. She can't write anymore and has difficulty with conversation, but she Loves Jehovah™ so much that she is willing to overcome these obstacles to show her Faithfulness™. WTF is your problem?? Why can't you be like Sister™ So-and-so?? What prevents you??"

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need your advice again, please

by outsmartthesystem in

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friends

so here's the latest in my pathetic saga.

i've tried to fly under the radar for the past year, but it isn't working so well.

i've learned not to engage my wife in debates but rather to ask questions.

Scully

Your fears for your children potentially becoming fully indoctrinated are justified. They're still young enough that if you provide true balance in their lives (extracurricular activities outside the JWs) that they could be reasoned with.

One of my favorite comparisons that my eldest understood right off the bat when we decided to leave the JWs, was talking about Santa Claus as if he were "pretend". A lot of people tell their kids that Santa Claus gives children whatever they wish for at Christmas, if they are good, but if they are bad he gives them a lump of coal. Children write letters to Santa asking for their special gifts. The parents peek at the letters and pretend to mail them to Santa, and then become "Santa's Helpers" and buy the gifts the children want. Santa is pretend, but parents want their children to be happy and believe in a benevolent stranger who loves them, when really it's the parents who love them so much.

Then we talked about Jehovah. He tells us to pray to him (make wishes) for the things we want. If we are obedient (good) apparently Jehovah will answer our prayers. If we disobey, he won't let us live in Paradise™/will destroy us at Armageddon™. He knows if you've been bad or good, and he's making a list and checking it twice. He even sends a man with an inkhorn to mark you in the forehead if you're good. He doesn't have a team of flying reindeer, but he does have a massive chariot in the sky with wheels that have eyes in them.

Do reindeers fly?

Do chariots fly in the sky? Do they have wheels with eyes in them?

Are they real or pretend?

That being said, it's still important for children to learn values of morality, justice, compassion, respect for others etc. You can foster those by volunteering with them - at a soup kitchen or food bank or helping a local family experiencing hard times. When they grow tired of toys or outgrow their clothes, teach them about sharing by giving those toys and clothes to a shelter or disaster relief center. While the WTS wants their focus to be on the WTS, help them expand their world view and your own by helping the less fortunate.

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need your advice again, please

by outsmartthesystem in

jw
friends

so here's the latest in my pathetic saga.

i've tried to fly under the radar for the past year, but it isn't working so well.

i've learned not to engage my wife in debates but rather to ask questions.

Scully

Doesn't it bother your wife that women within the JWs are basically regarded as second class citizens?

Surely she realizes that she's got more brains in her pinky toe than most of the Elders™ she knows?

That is an angle that will appeal to her intellect, and it could rekindle her affections for you, if you support her growth as a spiritual person by asking her to help you research things.

Does she like to read? If she likes historical type novels, give her The Red Tent by Anita Diamant. It's the story of Jacob's daughter Dinah, written from her female perspective. It was one of the first novels I read when I was freshly out of the JWs, and it presented an alternate viewpoint considering the stories in the Bible were all male-centric.

Try to do some things with her - first on non-Meeting™ nights and then gradually introduce events on Meeting™ nights - that she's always wanted to do as a couple. Maybe take a cooking class or a wine making class together or ball room dancing. If she likes going to movies have her choose a movie that she likes one week and you choose one that she will like the next week. Find a nice park in your area and go for a picnic with her and the children. Go to a child-oriented museum. Really focus on your relationship as a couple and family togetherness. I can't stress enough how important it is to slip positive non-JW activities into your life NOW. The JWs will react with shock and horror that you aren't spending every waking moment studying your Watchtowers and going Door-to-Door™, and will start gossiping about your Worldly™ activities. Your wife will feel conflicted, because she knows that there's nothing wrong with those activities, and they will have a positive effect on your relationship and your family, while the Meetings™ and Field Service™ will only create tension and the feeling of being burdened. That's one thing that helped Mr Scully wake up and smell the coffee when I was ready to quit and he wasn't.

Slow down. Armageddon™ isn't coming. There's no rush to get her out immediately.