HI Annalise,
Welcome!
I understand what you're going through. I hate it when people pretend they are "friends" only when they happen to bump into me in the street and its all "oh I have missed you". Thats absolute BS since the person never bothers to phone or even speak to you unless they have to.
It hurts. I have a friend who is a really good friend who is JW. She still meets me for lunch etc. but she can't socialise with me at any other time because of her JW husband and her standing in the cong. She meets me when hubbie is at work you see. The thing is, I dont blame her because ALL of her family are JWs and they would cut her off for sure if she left. I wish she would leave, but I understand where she's coming from.
Its so sad how they are so unloving and yet walk around saying that they're the only ones that God approves of.
Sirona