Posts by Funchback

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SEX: As a JW, Were you ever thisclose to having sex and then chickened out?

by Funchback in

as a jw, were you ever thisclose to having sex and then chickened out?

being raised (since the age of 7) as a jw, i grew up very frustrated sexually.

everything about sex carried a heavy burden of guilt.

UnderWear

by LukeN in

i was just wondering does the society frown apon the type of underwear.

worn by men?

(ex, boxers,briefs etc) its just something thats been bothering me lately

Funchback

The WTS says that since we're all nekkid in Jerhover's eyes, we shouldn't wear ANY underwear.

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SEX: As a JW, Were you ever thisclose to having sex and then chickened out?

by Funchback in

as a jw, were you ever thisclose to having sex and then chickened out?

being raised (since the age of 7) as a jw, i grew up very frustrated sexually.

everything about sex carried a heavy burden of guilt.

It's bad enough that we'd get a girlfriend, date them until the guilt kicked in, and then pray for forgiveness (just for even dating a non-JW). But the worst part was we'd do it over and over again. If we were NORMAL (aka non-JWs) teens, we'd have had a steady girlfriend, a prom date, or perhaps just a good friend.

I offer my apologies to Evelyn Muniz, Crystal Moore, and Vincella Ross.

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SEX: As a JW, Were you ever thisclose to having sex and then chickened out?

by Funchback in

as a jw, were you ever thisclose to having sex and then chickened out?

being raised (since the age of 7) as a jw, i grew up very frustrated sexually.

everything about sex carried a heavy burden of guilt.

Funchback

avishai-

Good for you, dawg! I tend to think you may be the exception, though.

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SEX: As a JW, Were you ever thisclose to having sex and then chickened out?

by Funchback in

as a jw, were you ever thisclose to having sex and then chickened out?

being raised (since the age of 7) as a jw, i grew up very frustrated sexually.

everything about sex carried a heavy burden of guilt.

Funchback

Hello, ball. Welcome to the Forum.

Did you get into relationships with non-JW girls and then break-up with them because of guilt?

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SEX: As a JW, Were you ever thisclose to having sex and then chickened out?

by Funchback in

as a jw, were you ever thisclose to having sex and then chickened out?

being raised (since the age of 7) as a jw, i grew up very frustrated sexually.

everything about sex carried a heavy burden of guilt.

Funchback

As a JW, were you ever thisclose to having sex and then chickened out?

Being raised (since the age of 7) as a JW, I grew up very frustrated sexually. Everything about sex carried a heavy burden of guilt. If you masturbated, you felt guilty. If you stared at a girls' booty, you felt guilty. If you touched a girls' breast (with her permission) you felt guilty.

But has this ever happened to you? You're with a NON-JW person and your hormones are bouncing off the chart. You're kissing and touching and feeling each other. They want to have sex with you. Then, you're JW guilt-ridden conscience kicks in. You tell her/him you have to go. You leave and then you never talk to that person again.

Or, it doesn't even have to come down to sex. It could just be a boyfriend/girlfriend thing and, beacuse they're not a JW, you just break up with them out of the blue.

I am guilty of both scenarios. I ran out on a girl who was about to give up the punani because Jehovah was barking in my ear. I've broken up with many girls because my JW conscience decided to kick in months after I got the girls deeply and emotionally involved with me.

As a JW, I was good at breaking hearts. Unfortunately, those breakups would break my heart, also.

Man, it's good not to be a JW anymore.

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If I wasn't on their DONOTCALL I am now !

by Will Power in

10:10 a.m. and 2 women with mags in hand ding dong on my door.

don't they know this is a do not call address?

well, it started out nice enough, i asked for a list of charitable works, (for other than jws) where their soup kitchens were, how a magazine will put food on someone's table, i brought up the un, the pedo data base, the whistleblower dfings, hoping that they'd be interested in one.

Funchback

Great stuff, WP!

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You Are Cordially Invited to a Philly Phest Brunch!

by Funchback in

jw
friends

all are welcome to attend philly phest (apostafest) brunch on sunday, january 11.

this will be the 2nd phest in the last three years.

if you missed the first one, then you missed meeting flower and her son jaden, badwillie and mrs. badwillie, and yours truly.

Funchback

Still time to respond if you'd like to attend.

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DA'd on Christmas, and my mother calling me

by Redneckgurl in

jw
friends

i knew this wouldn't be easy.

first of all, our announcement was read in 2 congregations, since we had just switched about 2 years ago.

the one my parents and longtime friends are in heard it on thursday, how ironic?

Funchback

If living a lie is how you are supposed retain your JW family and friends, then who the hell needs 'em?

If they truly love you and care about you and want you to be happy, they will respect your decision and will not shun you. Of course, it will take those TRUE family and friends to dig deep into their hearts and ignore the indoctrination they've received from the WTS over the years.

Hang in there, gurl!

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Describe The Person You Wish You Were

by minimus in

jw
friends

if you could (just like that) change things about yourself, what would you be like?

Funchback

I wanna be like Mike.

or

<snapping finger> Ooooh, Fajitas!!!