Thanks to Sirona & SaintSatan for the welcome :)
And I want to say that I've really enjoyed the healthy debate here, esp. b/w COMF & Sirona!
But, COMF, I think you should recognize that this opening statement seemed unnecessarily hostile from the beginning:
I came away with the knowledge that it, like Christian religions, is just another powerless superstition sidetracking humans from reality.
You state this as "knowledge," and therefore give weight to Sirona's argument, from the very beginning, that you assume *your* belief system to be true. By extension, you seem to assume that others see *their* belief systems to be true, universally true, and this in fact isn't the case with Paganism. My own experience with other Pagans has shown me that most truly believe that your belief makes your reality, and that most respect other Pagans' concept of reality, because they're not (aside from the occasional freak) trying to alter anyone else's. And my experience with spells is limited; I've only tried 3, at various times in the last 5 or 6 years, and of those one was a pretty frivolous one that didn't really need any "magical" help to achieve. The other 2 didn't have *any* business succeeding whatsoever (in your 'logical reality'), and yet did...
so... What?
Perhaps, in your worldview, my "spells" succeeded because of a belief in them, a psychosomatic self-fulfilling prophecy. Or you might think I'm *interpreting* "results" in a way that verifies my pre-ordained definition of reality. But, in my experience, whether I provide details of those 3 "spells" and their "effects" or not, you'll claim "interpretation" or "self-fulfilling prophecy," and won't even consider the *possibility* that there could be more to it.
So who's "right" or "wrong" about all this? My point is: Isn't it in the individual taste, perception, and willpower to make any one system work, whether their own or someone else's? Myself, I'm for coming up with one's own system. That's what's produced *results* for *me*. But who would I think I was if I said I spent an afternoon reading some books and came away with the "knowledge" that a generalized concept of a certain belief system was wrong? That is PERFECTLY analagous to a born-again Christian reading some atheist literature and coming away with the "knowledge" that it's wrong for everyone, because it doesn't coincide with his or her predetermined beliefs.
To add a counterpoint to your beliefs, my belief is this: Each of us creates our own reality through our own beliefs, not vice versa. So which of us is right, and who cares, and which (if either) of us has the right to say (as you did) that the other is wrong, wrong, wrong?
SpiderMonkey