I can relate. I am not DF or DA, yet my brother has not spoke to me in years. Two of my grandchildren came into foster care in my home. I talk some with my JW father and tell him that theses children my come up for adoption... He then repeats this to my brother.
I receive a call from my brother after 10 years of shunning me, he does not bother to ask how I or my family have been, but instead goes right into 20 questions about MY grandchildren.
is there anything wrong with them?
Did the mother do any drugs?
Do the parents have any mental issues?
Was there any complications with the pregnancy?
At this point I became so mad I hung up on him, I called my father to ask him why my brother was calling me and asking these questions.
Turns out they were gossiping about it and my father proceeds to tell me that he wanted to take MY grandchildren so the could be raised in "the truth".
The WT sucks the humanity out of members for anyone not in the cult. And they say we are mentally deaseased. Sheesh!