Hi PE,
I was in a similar situation back in 2001. My ex reacted with her emotions not her head, we divorced in 2 months, then she got DF, learned the TTATT and was an ex-jw one year later.
During that year, I avoided any dating so I could learn and find out who I really was as a person.... being raised as a JW you really have no idea who you really are. I am so glad that I took the time to myself to do that and I'm sure it helped when I was ready later to find the right life long partner. In this area I agree with DJS, you should really take time off from relationships after a bad breakup or you really risk getting with the wrong person.
Anyway, one year after we split, my ex was trying to hook me up with a friend of hers... I was like WTF? She said that now that I was no longer a JW I would be a good catch for someone... then I was still like WTF?
You got to do whats best for you and your child first and foremost!