Maybe it's just because I haven't eaten in about seven hours and my mind is still half on the pizza that's warming in the oven, but I really don't think I see your point. Like I already told you, my own worldview doesn't coincide 100% with the Secular Spirituality site, and more than that, I also said tht I was just presenting options. And I never made any claim that the site's owner was the only person in the world who held such views. If s/he were, s/he wouldn't have any books or sites to recommend.
I really don't get why you're so concerened with the external trappings of spiritual practices. I enjoy rituals myself, and apparently, the site's author thinks they're a good idea, too. But at the same time, I know that not everyone enjoys the kinds of rituals I do, and that not everyone feels drawn to ritual at all.
You see to me I just hear the message "I don't believe in God anymore but I'm still a spiritual person", and my reaction is "Okay. And..?"
If you don't get it, I probably can't explain it to you, and it's more than likely not something that's for you. As I said once before, spirituality is a very personal, individual thing; it doesn't mean the same thing to all people. Just because you can't relate to it personally doesn't mean that it's impossible or invalid.
You might wonder what all this has to do with the ideas posed at the secular spirituality website, well as the author of those articles says, it is a faith based on reason. What appears reasonable varies with individuals, and you may be a smart person but be biased in some way, or even if you're unbiased in what you choose as part of your belief/spiritual practice you may not have all the facts.
I'm not an atheist, so I definitely wasn't looking for a way to "validate" spiritual atheism. I just thought this site presented a really neat way of looking that things that some people here might find useful. What's so bad about presenting options? Does everyone HAVE to think the same? I am a Pagan, though, mostly Wiccan but also a few other things thrown in.
What do you, personally, believe? Do you believe in some sort of deity, and if so, which form? Maybe if you explained that to me, I could understand where you're coming from a bit better.
*Rochelle.
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"Most men complacently accept 'knowledge' as 'truth'. They are sheep, ruled by fear."
-- Sydney Losstarot, "Vagrant Story."