Thank you 00Dad and Satanus, I need to stop worrying about what people of my distant, ancient past think about. There is more to being family than genetics. Get this, the person hitting me up for money never spent a penny raising her own children allowing the father to raise them while she was high on anything she could get her hands own. Why should I allow her to weasle back into my life for one reason, money!
I don't want to be a SUCKER, thank's again for the Pep Talk, I needed it! The phone has been ringing off the hook asking to post "bond" "bail", thank you all for a boost of help when I was thinking something was wrong with me for not sending them cash as usual. Time to say no to codependancy! Kind thanks to all!