Been there! Done that! Very lucky to still be alive to wear the T Shirt!
I can be counted as one that did this too. In 1974 I had a terrible case of Endometriosis and had suffered with excruciating pain and intermttent heavy bleeding for almost TWO YEARS as I searched for a doctor that would operate on me without the use of blood. I was finally put in touch with one way up in northern NY state that was a few hours away. By the time I GOT the needed hysterectomy, I was very weak and had an extremely low blood count. The doctor had told me during my post-op visit---that he was afraid they were going to "lose me" more than once during the procedure.
Have things changed? I was asked about storing up my own blood.....and the elders said absolutely NOT. Any blood taken from the JW body should rightfully be disposed of and not "held onto" for surgical purposes.
I have nothing but sympathy for the husband and family of this poor JW mom (and MORE empathy for all JWs that are facing this dilemma)....and what the WTS demands and expects of their followers. I feel disgust and irritation that the JWs ARE so misled to believe anything and everything the GB dictates no matter WHAT that may be at any given moment.
IF there IS any "glee" involved...it would most certainly be from the JW camp, where this death will be talked about and glorified as "her strong faith in Jehovah in the face of death"...and as Mary said... "making jehovah's heart glad" (gag)....and she will be held up as a shining example (the latest poster child) for the insidious rules of the WTS. THAT will be what stays in the JW mind....and NOT the simple fact that they would still be enjoying her company and SHE would be enjoying her new babies...if she had accepted the blood she needed.