If you or your parents do believe in a GOD ,who gave you a brain to think and reason for yourself then it would be going against GOD`s arrangement if you only followed and acted upon what others told you or wanted you to do.
And not "do or act" on what your brain tells you to do with a clear conscience .
It never ceases to amaze me how & why so many people live their lives dictated by what other people will think of them instead of living their own lives by what they want to do.
They just waste their own lives trying to please other people.
Its crazy.
You only have one life ,don`t waste it trying to please other people , life is short enough as it is.