My mother said often that she never wanted to be kept alive by artificial means. When she suffered a stroke at the age of 86, she was in a vegetative state. My brother, who could not let go, insisted on a feeding tube. My mother never put her wishes in writing, so the doctors did the tube.She lingered like that for several months and was skin stretched over a skeleton when she died. All my brother did was postpone the inevitable for his own emotional purpose. He was not thinking of what was best for our mother, but what made him feel better. She died with that stroke, her body just didn't know it yet. What he put her through was cruel. Also, the family can not have closure and get on with their lives and long as this continues.
When there is no chance of recovery, and family members do not accept that, all they are doing is dragging out the suffering so they can continue to feed their fantasy of a recovery. There is a time to let go. We all die some time. For some it is sooner. It is not easy, but it is reality.
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