Bridgette...I also sent links (Silent Lambs, Watchtower.org)to several Chicago newspapers, incuding some of the "free" papers. The Reader, New City, Free Press. I've taken this subject to another exjw board and many there have emailed the Sun Times with their own stories. I wish I knew how to go about getting the court transcripts. If anyone can tell me, I'll try my best. I've never done it before so don't really know where to start.
wiz...I know atrocities to children go on all over the world each second of every day. To me, that is the worst possible crime. To hurt someone who is totally defenseless. A child. Like Laree. My heart breaks every day for all the killing, abortions, rapes, torture. I have posted pics on light poles of a convicted child molestor living right here in my Chicago neighborhood. The reason?? He is not supposed to live within a block of a public school, but because he "owned" the house, the law was not enforced. He lives two houses down from the elementary school that my 9 and 12 year old attend. IMO, he should not be free at all! My own nieces and nephew were molested by their own grandfather (on their father's side), who was not a witness, but a "pillar" of the community and a regular church-goer. He got a fine and probation. I wanted to kill him for what he did.
But, growing up in an abusive JW household with far too many similarities to Laree is why I feel a connection to this case. And why it bothers me on a deeper level. It's too close to home. I can actually feel some of what she must have felt. The terror. The fear. The sick feeling in the pit of your stomach when you are stripped naked and waiting for the thick belt, or the extension cord, or the yardstick. Getting told NOT TO CRY or it will be worse! And it is always worse. And it doesn't stop. The frenzy feeds itself. You almost pass out.
Knowing there is NO WAY OUT. Knowing NO HELP WILL COME. Helpless. Being told the reason they do this is because they love you. And it's Jehovah's will. You're no good anyway. You'll be destroyed at Armageddon. Listeing to my sister's screams and trying to close my ears, until she learned not to scream at all, and I was just numb.
Getting all this "Christian love" so mixed up in your mind that you think your husband doesn't love you unless he hits you and calls you a worthless slut.
No, wiz, I don't think JWS are the only ones who do this to their kids, but they are the ones I grew up with....they are the ones I have nightmares about...they are the ones who condoned it...who didn't help my sister...who killed her by not caring....
Thank you for this, Bridgette. Thank you.....
April
"Love never dies." Voivodul Vlad Draculea (from Bram Stoker's Dracula-1992)