You continue to suggest that by allowing for feelings and fantasies to be understood as real conditions/creations of the mind.
You've categorized feelings and fantasies as the same again.
With modern equipment we actually can quantify and isolate feelings and project them on a screen.
Suppose someone significant to you tells you 'I despise you so much '.
Well, but how much is that? How absurd to think that you can pour this hate into a cup and measure the amount as you would water.
No, you would shift into the reality of the heart and mind, countering their emotion with kindness and contrition, else they determine you to be cold and indifferent which would be dangerous to the relationship. None of this is fantasy.
My aim was simply to point out that not all things that some here consider metaphysical are fantasy as was absolutely claimed.