mymailmum: You SHOULDN'T EVEN BE READING THIS. You know it and I know it. So dont come on here defending your church when your church tells you that you shouldn't even be on this website. I could be wrong, maybe you were granted 'special powers' by the society so that when you read this "apostate" material you are not harmed by it like the rest of the brothers and sisters would be.
Just in case you are still reading, let me assure you that most on this site have seen the things that happen among the jw's.
Unlike you we are tired of making excuses for it like "Jehovah allows certain things to continue for a time" and "Satan is the one testing all of Jehovah's people". No, either God is directing the elders and the society or he is'nt. Which one is it? Oh I know, he is directing them when they do the right thing, and when they screw up it was imperfect human error again, right? How conveniant.