Copernicus,
I thought the article was very provocative and apropos to this board, also, and am a tad surprised about the lack of response, but not really.
You said,
I loved the title ?When God Hides His Face? ? perfect. It said it all in only a few words. As far as I can tell, God (if he exists) has hid his face from this young couple, and everyone else as well. I never could reconcile that with his supposed attribute of love, and now I believe that we have created an imaginary God in our image, not vice versa. Humanity needs to get past this worn out concept, but on to what?
You've said a lot here. I understand people's interest in seeing god interact in their life. It's very comforting to think that The Creator Himself sees us and takes an interest in what we are doing. As I mentioned earlier, I lived that way myself for many years. The good times were (supposedly) My Heavenly Father's way of patting me on the back, putting wind in my sails, letting me know that he was smiling on me. The bad times I saw as god's way of testing my mettle, seeing what I was made of. I don't belittle those who still think that way, since I was in their boots for so long. Seriously, in a very real way, I envy their simplistic view of reality.
Anyhow, I copied it and sent it off to a long time friend of mine today and we had quite a discussion about it. We came to the same conclusion as you:
(check your email. I sent you the article in its entirety.)
When you get a little distance from this sort of thinking, as we have, the whole thing looks so ridiculous, doesn?t it?
It does... it really does. So many "mysteries" are cleared up when you take the notion of "god" out of the picture. As you said before, sometimes 'shit happens' and it's just that simple. When I was a dub, I wondered for years about many things. Now that I know what (I think) I know, the answers all fall into place.
Unfortunately there is very little comfort in the ?big picture? either. No baby Hope waiting for them in heaven, or eventually to be resurrected and returned to them in a paradise earth. It isn?t easy to live with the kind of pain the parents have suffered, I guess I can?t blame them for inventing their own escape hatch, despite the cognitive dissonance that has reduced both of them to basket cases.
Indeed, that is the deal, Copernicus. Isn't it comforting for them to think that they WILL see their little baby once more? In a real way, they have a better life than I do, since I think I'm more in touch with "the truth", i.e. their baby is gone forever.
[[If you're interested, go to http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/forum/thread.asp?id=8379&site=3 where I shared with the board an email I sent to my (very inactive) JW sister. Her response to it was basically that she was going to keep believing what our mama taught us, because if it weren't true, she'd probably go crazy. Her comment was ludicrous, but the really sad part is that I understood completely.]]
Thinking that god will one day erase all of the pains we have experienced, all of life's injustices, is hard for people to give up, and frankly, I sometimes wish that I hadn't found out some things, most notably that there probably isn't a god and this life IS all there is. Ignorance is bliss, and one who increases knowledge increases pain, or something like that.
But what am I gonna do? Cry about it? I don't think so. Too late for THAT.
peace, my friend,
tj