(((((((Hi outnfree)))))))
This is eisenstein, i am posting under chachasmum's name for the sake of time, (we share the same computer). I can empathize with you a little my sister had her catherization when she was seventeen, but found to be inoperable except for a combined heart and lung transplant. But I can't imagine what you must have been going through with all of that going on at the same time it must have been so traumatic.
That quote from Ghandi sounds very interesting, I truly believe that too, it takes greater energy to create peace than war, but it is a more positive energy.
I hope your husband is doing better and the surgery went well.
eisenstein and chachasmum