There have been a lot of well-thought-out responses to Sea Breeze's original question, and many, many offshoots have developed, from whether Christmas or even birthdays should be celebrated all the way to more weighty matters such as whether Jesus is God. I guess we could discuss the differences between JW theology and orthodox theology ad infinitum, but the bottom line should be the gospel message and how we respond to it. And this is the message:
"And there is no other god besides me, a righteous God and a Savior; there is none besides me. "Turn to me and be saved, all the ends of the earth! For I am God, and there is no other." [Isa 45:21-22]
Every single one of us is in need of salvation. The Apostle Paul wrote:
"for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and are justified by his grace as a gift, through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus, whom God put forward as a propitiation by his blood, to be received by faith." [Rom 3:23-25]
We all fall short of God's holy standard, which is summed up in Jesus' exchange with a Jewish lawyer:
"And behold, a lawyer stood up to put him to the test, saying, "Teacher, what shall I do to inherit eternal life?" He said to him, "What is written in the Law? How do you read it?" And he answered, "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself." And he said to him, "You have answered correctly; do this, and you will live."" [Luk 10:25-28]
Jesus challenged this man to live in such a way so as to show wholehearted love and devotion to God and our neighbor in order to inherit eternal life. Yet, who of us can do this perfectly? The only person to ever fulfill this requirement was Jesus. When we compare our lives to the perfect life of Jesus, how do we fare? Did we ever lie, cheat, or steal? Do we love and honor our mother and father? Did we ever commit adultery, or love money more than God?
Only Jesus fulfilled the intent of the Mosaic law perfectly. That is why faith in Jesus' death and resurrection has such power to save us--He is the only one who can stand before God in our place--by His suffering and death He took on the spiritual punishment we deserve for breaking God's laws.
For those who put their faith in Jesus as the promised Messiah who would save us from our sins, He grants eternal life:
"Truly, truly, I say to you, whoever hears my word and believes him who sent me has eternal life. He does not come into judgment, but has passed from death to life." [Jhn 5:24]
""For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him. Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only Son of God." [Jhn 3:16-18]
I am not an eloquent defender of orthodox Christian faith, but the above is the basis anyone needs to understand and believe. Every other discussion should flow from this simple gospel message. This is the foundation on which all theology should be built. How could I understand more complex topics if the foundation I am building on is not secure?
God is looking for people who are searching for truth, who are humble:
"Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light." [Mat 11:28-30]
"Jesus said to him, "I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." [Jhn 14:6]
Like Paul says:
"We implore you on behalf of Christ, be reconciled to God." [2Co 5:20]
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