"(2) Terrence Obrien "people are free to leave or become inactive without being viewed negatively"
Speaking from personal experience I had people tell me,,,,,,,"
Speaking from MY personal experience, in my congregation's district there are some 8-10 inactive ones, and they are greeted and well treated by everone in the congregation, visited from time to time etc. One of them has been an elder, two servants. So it is a risky business to try to broaden one's own personal experience to be the one and only truth for the entire world. I never would try to say my experience is the universal one, and perhaps neither should you.