Yep...Gotta change things up every so often otherwise you can't keep control.
One of the worst things that happened to me was the it's okay...no it's not...well it's a little okay, but only if your wife says so...no it's not okay anymore bulls*&t! So needless to say when I told them to take an airborne, intercourse, at a perforated motivated pastry I was the one on the outside.
Later I still hadn't learned my lesson, yeah I know I'm hard headed, so I dated and then proposed marriage to who I thought was a pretty nice woman. The sheep shearers told her she was free to marry (as if it's any of their business). Then she wasn't free after her ex said he still loved her. He was the one who slept around and walked out on her. Then the CO said she was in fact free. We got married in spite of all the stress that infernal flip-flopping created. Then the local heavies reversed the CO decision and DF'd us both for "fornication" because we married without their express "approval".
Gawd almighty I hate that kind of small man BS!