Thanks all for your responses! I love reading all of these posts.
JT:
I can understand your point, but in the cases you gave
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"a your store catches on fire- the firemen and ladder truck are across the street at Burger King for lunch- they do nothing" .
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and the others you list in saying God let's things happen, I came to view God in a way I never have after leaving the JWs. My old pastor helped me to see how much the JWs make their God so one-sided.
God is bigger than just seeing the past, present and future. He can see the whole entire picture at once, kinda of like looking down from the top of the highest mountain. In His love he created man, in seeing they would sin, he created a way for that creation to be redeemed and gain life, he saw the future when heaven and earth will become one and thousands upon thousands that He has created, who accepted His son and Savior Jesus, will live for eternity.
For God to stop everything bad, he would of had to take away one of the basis of human happiness--freedom. In love He gives us our freedom, and in love He gives us a way to be forgiven of the sin we were born into.
So in using your illustration, God saw that the store was going to be set on fire by a careless clerk who left a cigarette burning near a magazine on the counter. God could of stopped that clerk from even learning how to smoke by keeping her from the people who taught her, etc., etc. But we have freedom in life. So the journeys we take in life play out. The firemen and ladder don't come right away, they come later to fix the damage. The end result is a rebuilt store that's even better than the last one.
God gave our first parents free will, and in a show of more love Jesus came to repair the damage, and in the end we will be in heaven in a place far better than any earthly life can even hold a candle to. As my current paster says when talking about the greatness of heaven "When he get to heaven, this life now will seem like a bad night in a cheap motel." (It still feels weird saying "my pastor" after years of saying "elder" as a JW! *LOL*)
I just saw it with this amazement that Sunday in church, how much I tried to see God as thinking so small when I was a JW (oh, God will be mad if I miss a meeting) when in reality His thoughts are so much higher, so far reaching than my human brain can comprehend.