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  What about your vow to Jehovah?

  by a watcher in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  did you get baptized without being dedicated?.

  why did you allow men to come between you and jehovah?.

  why were you serving jehovah at all?

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  leaving_quietly said:

  My dedication was to God. It was not to an organization.

  *** w66 10/1 pp. 603-604 par. 15 Serving with Everlasting Life in View ***
  This is what we mean when we dedicate our lives to Jehovah. We do not dedicate ourselves to a religion, nor to a man, nor to an organization. No, we dedicate ourselves to the Supreme Sovereign of the Universe, our Creator, Jehovah God himself. This makes dedication a very personal relationship between us and Jehovah.

  I find it impossible to believe that a god who created the universe would continually, throughout history, allow human organizations run by unscrupulous men to proclaim representation of him while sheltering child abusers, lining their pockets by fleecing poor families, breaking apart families and teaching followers to be arrogant and gleeful about hoped-for destruction of their fellow humans.

  And so I doubt...

  Doesn't make me a bad person. Just removing myself from that evil influence so as to become a better one.
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  What about your vow to Jehovah?

  by a watcher in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  did you get baptized without being dedicated?.

  why did you allow men to come between you and jehovah?.

  why were you serving jehovah at all?

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  cultBgone

  bumping this
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  Good News Report

  by Watchtower-Free in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  good news report: talked to a man who is currently studying with the.

  jws.

  he called into jwstruggle.com and asked to talk to someone.. i called him back .

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  cultBgone

  Donate at the kh or to jw.struggle? Well that's a no-brainer! Let's help keep those phone lines open!
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  Do you have a newfound thirst for self-expression after leaving the religion?

  by Apognophos in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i'm not even out yet and sometimes i feel like expressing my opinions loudly, wearing t-shirts with messages on them (gasp!

  ), and getting up in people's faces when they annoy me.

  sometimes the thought of a fistfight sounds appealing.

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  Apog, I think I understand what you mean. It's the reverse of when someone new first learns "the truth" and wants to tell absolutely everyone about all the cool new stuff they are learning. When you learn The Real Truth [TTATT], you want to shout it out from the rooftops because it is such Freedom! Personally, I wish I could use the bumper sticker someone posted that said something like "I've survived 5 End Times Already!" or even "Religion Is A Snare And A Racket" but they won't work in my fade....
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  What surprising reactions have you experienced from family and friends?

  by cultBgone in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  musing over several rather eye-opening reactions i've recently experienced has made me wonder what others have been told that made them go...wow.. my earliest was a family member upset with me for not attending meetings who exclaimed, "but you're going to die at armageddon!

  " i told them that wasn't true because the bible says that god is love and he doesn't work that way.

  they were very angry with me!

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  cultBgone

  Musing over several rather eye-opening reactions I've recently experienced has made me wonder what others have been told that made them go...wow.

  My earliest was a family member upset with me for not attending meetings who exclaimed, "But you're going to die at armageddon!" I told them that wasn't true because the bible says that god is Love and he doesn't work that way. They were very angry with me! I realized it wasn't ME they were concerned about, but their own sense of loss that if I would not be there [paradise™], they would be miserable, so their reaction really was "how could I do this to them". The sad part for me was that I had raised this person as a jw. Happily, they have since seen the light.

  I would love to share my three more recent reactions but sadly I cannot open them up to lurkers at this time.

  What about you? Any experiences that made you just shake your head and say wow, how did I ever believe THAT?
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  I had a funny feeling he was a Witness... and now I need help.

  by noontide in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  im in a bit of a bind and im not quite sure what (if anything) i can do about it.

  i was recently hired as a business consultant for a rather large company.

  the company that hired me mentioned that they are concerned about a certain department and the way its being run, as this department affects every other department in the company.

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  The posters are correct, you have to remove the jw element as just look at his skill-set and performance. The company brought you in to "discover" the problem with the department, not to fix this person (belief system aside). I realized that the issue is with the Director of this particular department. You probably identified him quickly because you have an active jw-meter, but that should really work to your advantage as it's easy for you to spot the "work dissonance" with him, where the company's work parameters/directives/goals are not meshing with his behavior.

  Using the department's goals, detail in writing how (no "why" needs to be mentioned) his actions and/or inactions are causing poor performance and morale....and congratulate yourself on doing a great job so fast! Maybe you'll get a bonus.
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  Good News Report

  by Watchtower-Free in

  1. watchtower
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  good news report: talked to a man who is currently studying with the.

  jws.

  he called into jwstruggle.com and asked to talk to someone.. i called him back .

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  Awesome job, much applause!!!
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  BREAKING NEWS ! 89 Jehovah's Witnesses lost their homes in Valparaiso,Chile

  by raymond frantz in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  89 jehovah's witnesses lost their houses (read full article here).

  news are coming through now , 20 days, later about a fire that destroyed the houses of 89 jehovahs witnesses in valparaiso,chile.

  according to jw.org ,on april 13, 2014 a wildfire started by strong pacific winds destroyed most of the old city of valparaiso, that lies in the coastline of chile.the fire destroyed almost 3,000 homes and thousands were displaced as a result.so far the authorites have reported 15 people dead ,one of the them a jehovahs witness..

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  Thanks for posting, what a sad day this was! (((hugs))) for the families and friends
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  On The Art Of Fading

  by expatbrit in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  in october of 2000, i faded away from the watchtower.

  like most people, i have family and friends who are jw's (including my wife and parents).

  fading is generally the best method for people in that situation.

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  Wouldn't it be great to hear the stories of these faders from years ago?
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  D.A. vs. Slow Fade

  by Black Man in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  which is better in your estimation?

  hit the borg with a d.a.

  letter or do the slow fade.

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  I would love to hear the follow-up stories of these original posters from twelve years ago.