Well my folks seem determined to drive what remains of their family right off the cliff! I should have known better, but after enduring various insults after explaining why I won't attend the memorial, I too off the gloves. I threw the UN scandal into the mix. My mom doubted it's accuracy so I gave her the proof right from the UN website. The converstaion ended with her disgusted by my explaination for not believing the witnesses.
Today I speak with my father. After some small talk he feels compelled to inform me that I am an apparent threat. I asked why? He proceeds to tell me that due to my thinking they feel I am a threat. I guess I always knew, but I felt amazed that people could feel so threatened simply by the someone elses thoughts or opinions. I believe it's not fear, but discrimination that is instilled into witnesses. The Society is constantly reinforcing the idea that "they are the only ones" doing God's will. All others are somehow being mislead by Satan.
In a futile last ditch I reason with him that my relationship and "thinking" were between me and God. I cautioned him on placing a human organization above family. No amount of reason will penetrate. He brought up a document that Mormons allegedly used to try to win favor with the Nazi's. I asked him what should this make a Mormon conclude? "That God's spirit is not with this religion". I noted the similar language in the "Declaration of facts" that the Society used to try to win favor with the Nazi's. Somehow this did not qualify - human imperfection.
Over the years their family ties have slowly withered away. Sure the void is filled by equally destitute JW's at the hall. Their common sufferings actually make them more insular and dependant on their group. And incredibly, they feel they are being attacked!!
It's too bad, mostly for them. They are going to be strung along by this publishing company till the day they die.
Oh well, just venting, Thanks for listening