The bible says that we shouldn't compare ourselves with other people either physically or spiritually. Some would produce 5 to 1, and others 2 to 1.
But why is it that the elders always tried to compare us to other witnesses? If we made less than 10 hours of service in a month, they would say that we were below the average. So we were compared with the average witness.
Every time I had an excuse for something, they would compare me with a person in the congregation with a handicap, just to put me down. For example, if I said I didn't go out in the field service because it was too cold, they would find an example of an old person in the 80's who went out in the serice that particular day. If I said, my car was broken and I couldn't get to the book study, they would say, sister or brother x walks every week to the book study and he lives 2 miles away.
Did you often feel as if you didn't do enough because the elders compared you to someone else?
Edited by - JH on 8 January 2003 14:11:15