Most appauling thing I've ever heard from an Elder happened like this:
After my long-suffering JW mother recieved a liver transplant about 10 years ago, the transplant did not take with multiple complications. As she was nearing death, I called our current Presiding Overseer at his home. Granted we were 250 miles away at University known for "bloodless" (or as near to bloodless as any steak can be). Anyhow, she was nearing death. I was sitting alone in my car in a parking garage. I called this trusted PO and asked if he'd come offer some spiritual assistance, comforting words to my dying mother, etc. His response? "I'm in the middle of dinner right now, please call the local body of Elders, and I'm sure they'll be able to offer you some assistance." He then hung up, and I was left picking my jaw up off the floor. It was then.....right then and there, thru my tears and suffering, that I realized that these "Princes among men", did not give one flying f*ck about me, my family, my dying mother, or anything else besides whether or not you were stuffing a chair at every meeting and stuffing your income into a donation box. You are not a person, you are a number.....an EXPENDABLE number, and they don't give a rat's azz about you or your problems. They no more shephard a flock any more than a wolf would. This "loving shephard" was killed in a freak construction accident about 2 years later. It was then I realized kharma was straight up for real yo! I have many more "Elder Dozies", but the one I just relayed takes first prize. Want to know who DID come and visit my dying mother on the last day of her life? Three of her so-called "worldly" co-workers took off work, rented a mini-van, and came down unannounced to cheer her up, which they did. She cried upon seeing them. I was floored. Here, the JW's didn't give two sh*ts, but her coworkers did. I thanked them over lunch in the cafeteria. Truly, by their "love" you will know them.
- Wing Commander