You are one of those unfortunate individuals (much like myself) who somehow manage to attract life's toxic assholes, like bees to honey. This man was a two-faced manipulator who was using you. You called him on his BS, and he bailed. Consider yourself lucky, in particular that you have removed this toxic a-hole from your life. Myself, and most others on here will tell you straight out that this so-called "Religion" is nothing more than a publishing and real estate corporation CULT, masquerading as a Neo-Judeo Christian religion.
It's a Cult!
Be glad to have one less loser in your life, and get on with yours and try to remove the rest of the losers until you can finally breathe again.
PS: Welcome! We have ALL been mentally mind-f*cked by this CULT in one way or the other, so we all at least have that in common.