Hey Gang, Several days ago Funchback had started a topic about men freezing up at urinals. I wanted so bad to reply back to that, however since im using an outdated browser at home im not able to post, only read. Anyway what Funchback was describing was bashful bladder,shy bladder, or otherwise known as paruresis. I have had this condition to varying degrees ever since about 12 years old. It is thought that this is a prevalent condition, however most people are too embarassed to talk about it even with their doctors so this condition mainly goes undiagnosed, and there are even doctors who havent heard of this. So its no telling how many people out there have this. There is a discussion board that I frequent for people with shy bladder and there are people on there from all regions of the country. My state is extremely underrepresented on the board, and I went for several years before anyone local made contact with me-I face the same problem by the way with Ex-JW boards too;nobody is ever from my area. Well anyway i have mostly gotten over this disorder but am willing to talk with others who have it, and in some way be able to help them overcome this also. It is believed that this is a Social Anxiety disorder. Most people there have no idea what caused this, and theories abound. I for one believe that it is related to my childhood upbringing, We were never allowed to associate outside of the Kingdom Hall, we were never allowed to participate in any extracurricular activities, we were never allowed to join the boy scouts or go to summer camp. we were never allowed to date and even when we did finally, we had to have a chaperone. I believe this has left many former witnesses with a sense of isolation. Even in the congregations, no one trusted anybody, and you always had to be on the lookout for the Elders watching over your shoulders. It fostered a kind of paranoia that has taken years to get over. If anyone reading this has this condition and would like more information you may leave a message in my box. I will be online for the next hour or so, to respond back, otherwise it may be until monday or tuesday until I can. By the way women can have this disorder too, however its much more prevalent in men
JG