I think I've become less jealous over the years. I used to ALWAYS feel threatened by other "better" looking women. I couldn't resist it when my man looked at another woman, it drove me nuts. I felt he literally WANTED her, otherwise, why would he constanly throw a quick glance at the woman in question. I know I am right, men look at women when they find them attractive. But you know what? Men and woman, will ALWAYS look at the other gender, it is natural. But sometimes, men and woman, don't only look, they follow through with their desires. Does that mean they don't love their respective spouses? I really don't know.....like the song says, " I really don't know love at all".
I think that no matter how jealous you are and how careful you are to check on your partner, your partner will always find a way to cheat on you if he or she wants to. I know about these thinks. One case I know about, the husband goes out to the grocery store for maybe 20 minutes, but he really goes to a prostitute for a 3 minitue BJ. Another case, the man is married, the only one working in the household, he's wife stays home, she has control of all the money he makes, so he cannot spend a dime on any woman. Guess what? There are women out there willing to have sex with him at any time, the women even pay for the hotel room and all. His wife is home thinking he's the perfect husband.