Jealousy

by Stefanie 21 years ago 31 Replies latest 21 years ago jw friends

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  Stefanie 21 years ago

  Does anyone have a problem with this, or have a problem with their mates being like this. How do you know when your mate is cheating and when is it enough? Do you forgive..Do you stay???

  Thanks...

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  Nosferatu 21 years ago

  I suspect that my ex may have cheated on me. She would go out to the bar with her friend, not come home all night, not leave a message, but come home at 3:00pm the next day.

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  Nosferatu 21 years ago

  Oh yeah, here's something else. Keep an eye on your trash for anything suspicious. After my ex moved out, I found a note that was all scribbled out. I put it up to the light and read it. It was addressed to another guy.

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  Badger 21 years ago

  I wouldn't have put up with any....if it's a steady relationship and it's understood you're in it for a long haul, end it.

  As for jealosy from the other party, it may be a sign of their own wandering eye...

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  ApagaLaLuz 21 years ago

  I dont think I've ever been cheated on, and I've never cheated.

  But lately I've found myself growing jealous. IT's hard to do considering we work together, live together, and never go out without each other. But I get jealous because I feel like he's losing interest. You know, the grass is always greener on the otherside. I've never been a jealous person. I was wondering the same thing Stef. If it was normal for me to be feeling like this.

  I wonder how often the other ladies on the board feel this way, or am I just crazy?

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  ApagaLaLuz 21 years ago

  As for jealosy from the other party, it may be a sign of their own wandering eye...

  Ouch.... Badger makes for a good point

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  Stefanie 21 years ago

  I feel jealous sometimes because of the inexperience that have in relationships.

  As for jealosy from the other party, it may be a sign of their own wandering eye...

  Never saw it that way...

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  Sassy 21 years ago

  well I have never cheated on anyone but I have been cheated on.. it does leave scars on you.

  I try not to be jealous now.. but I get that way.. but I also have reason to be in my current relationship... that's all I can say about it

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  Stefanie 21 years ago

  I know the feeling.

  I wont be intimate if my mate is talking about a coworker right before bed..

  Guess that the jealousy in me.

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  Pinned Blouse 21 years ago

  Stef,

  I am a (mostly) reformed jealous person. If my husband spent a little extra time in the shower or wore a little too much cologne, my mind would wander & wonder. Our minds are the most powerful weapon, I would conjure up scenarios and my imagination would run wild. Once I realized that it was all in my head I stopped doing that. It was made worse when I reaized he dated a few ladies before me that work in our building. These are ladies he dated before I knew him, but when I see them, my imagination used to really run wild. After we have been together for a few years I no longer have those feelings of jealousy. I can look at these ladies without any jealousy now. I have confidence in myself. Wasn't always easy.

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