attraction isn't the glue that holds couples together, and there have even been scientific polls and studies taken on this.
that initial attraction *typically* doesn't last more than a few months.
though attraction keeps you interested long enough to get to know someone and build a relationship with him/her.. but my question is this, how long does the attraction lasts in new couples, before they get bored with each-other?..
My Two Cents.
Looks are important, you have to be able to imagine waking up to that face everyday, make sure its not a face the "only a mother can love" lol
In short you don't have to be gorgeous, just don't be ugly... have all your teeth, a clean face, and no unibrow, thats all thats required for me.
what does everyone think, is dating avenues really that big of a deal?
i have been told by everyone on my congregation to not trust online dating.
especially if this is supposed to be the "truth".
Thank Mrs. Jones! :D
what does everyone think, is dating avenues really that big of a deal?
i have been told by everyone on my congregation to not trust online dating.
especially if this is supposed to be the "truth".
Unfortunetly, out here doctors will fight you every step of the way. We had a girl who had a bloodclot that caused her to have similar symptoms to acid reflux, she could not keep anything down throwing up all the time andm when they were in the middle of fixing it she almost died because they kept arguing with her and wanted to pump her full of blood, they said the EPO wasn't going to boot her blood count enough, but they were wrong it did.
From what I understand they are safer alternatives than blood and alot of research went into this as well.
I agree there are probably some extreame cases where it might not be enough though.
Yes I would be interested in seeing these questions and OH, I am DYING to get my hand on the Elders Book, I guess only the elders are allowed to read is, can anyone on here get access to an online copy? I will check out that site.
what does everyone think, is dating avenues really that big of a deal?
i have been told by everyone on my congregation to not trust online dating.
especially if this is supposed to be the "truth".
So true!
what does everyone think, is dating avenues really that big of a deal?
i have been told by everyone on my congregation to not trust online dating.
especially if this is supposed to be the "truth".
Mum: I love it when you say "I don't think you will like it" Because that is so like me... LOL NO ONE is my head, period. I have no interest in having children. But in medical cases there are blood alternatives, and I will qualify for the specific treatment once I am baptised.
jgnat: My entire scope of interests revolves soley around, music, videogames, computers/internet, and money. I am going to build a recording studio/gaming desk all in one, and I am going to make my own CDs and sell them, would love to also get paid as a beta tester. I like to play guitar too. I like computers and internet because lots of online money making possibilites, right now I am working on a website to try to make some money online, with many other website ideas in my mind, and of chourse anything to do with money and turning a profit, especailly online. When I start my new job I want to invest in as many of these home business as I can, while eliminating the scams in the process. And I am trying out blogging, which is kind of with my website, but I am trying out marketing methods before putting out content, but I know what I want to write about. My website/Blog ironically enough is about music, videogames and making money online.
I also like food, cooking and stuff, learning aboud healthy alternatives, and I like make-up and hair. Arts and Crafts on occasion, but when I do, it is mainly colorfull orginal designs on embrotery floss bracelets.
I also enjoy cuddling and exchanging sweet talk with others.
BTW sorry I have not been on in a while, I am house sitting and dog sitting for my sister while she is on vacation, I am just getting around to this now.
what does everyone think, is dating avenues really that big of a deal?
i have been told by everyone on my congregation to not trust online dating.
especially if this is supposed to be the "truth".
christiandatingforfree.com is a great one, thats where I met my last guy, our relationship lasted well over a year.
POF is a great place if you want a hook up. But every single person I met on there was a complete nut job, and compleatly full of drama. I beleive you can do self screening on there though, that if someone does not meet your criteria they are not allowed to message you.
what does everyone think, is dating avenues really that big of a deal?
i have been told by everyone on my congregation to not trust online dating.
especially if this is supposed to be the "truth".
For all the rules any religions hold onto, I am a still a "love is love" person. I almost want to say "Just let love be"
Protection is important to witnesses, but again it does not suit everyone and in some cases it is over rated.
So when I find myself in times of trouble... Mother Mary comes to me... Speaking words of wisdom... "let it be"
LET LOVE BE! lol
what does everyone think, is dating avenues really that big of a deal?
i have been told by everyone on my congregation to not trust online dating.
especially if this is supposed to be the "truth".
jgnat,
Wow, sounds like they were trying to make an in-bred church. Which is eventually what is going to happen if they put so much limitations on it. lol
The un-equally yolked scripture makes sense though, it is put in place for our own spiritual protection.
So what happend when you found your Husband? Did they kick you out of the church? I don't imagine they would be very impressed that your husband is a JW. lol
what does everyone think, is dating avenues really that big of a deal?
i have been told by everyone on my congregation to not trust online dating.
especially if this is supposed to be the "truth".
No, It wasn't that he was not following me, I began dating him literally weeks before I was working for the witness family. So not to long after I started getting interested, and when I started to study, I was at the point where I could not be judged for it, I could still marry him, but the sister I was studying with at the time was basically give me the "shit or get off the pot" kind of thing, because I had to legitimize my relationship with him.
So I was still willing to have him as my husband, things just changed once I told him what I was doing, he was fine at first, but then he had a hard time accepting it. I was not trying to convert him or anything, I explained to him, a marraige between us could still work, and he said okay, you can do it, but I don't want to.
In Limbo though??? Hmmmm... Yes I think I agree with you, I am kind of in Limbo, like right now I am ready for the next guy. Not really looking for Mr. Right, but Mr. Right Now...
what does everyone think, is dating avenues really that big of a deal?
i have been told by everyone on my congregation to not trust online dating.
especially if this is supposed to be the "truth".
LOL Thanks jgnat!
I don't beleive all of that will go away when I get baptised, the Kingdom Hall I go to is loaded with personalities.
Trust me there are some pretty opinionated people at the Kingdom Hall too... lol. Not everyone agrees with everything the organization does.
So I guess I might not be able to be myself 100 percent at my Kingdom Hall, but I still have this site, to get things off my chest, I just have to "re-direct" my independanace, and opinions lol.
I think what I am really eager for is structure, and although, not for everyone, I can see that it would off me that.
MrsJones5: Thats true I have nothing to worry about, but hey I am still lonely lol Im so bad....
