always found it amazing how a DFed person would volunteer to tell you they were dfed and then at that point you would have to treat them like Sh!T- you got to love it when a "System" like wt has convince folks that at all times in all phases our ones life you still need to comply with thier policies-
Yes, I'm totally guilty of that. When I was recently DF and still going to meetings, I went with another DF person, and that person was told that by an elder who called her that DF persons were not to sit together. I told the woman, "We're DF? Why should we do what they say? And what can they do to us if we don't?" She whined that if we sat together, we wouldn't be showing repentence. I also once joined a Yahoo group for persons who were DF who wanted to go back. The list owner deleted the group when he found out the DF persons are not to have contact with one another.
Yes, I volunteer the information about being DF to Witnesses I meet. They always recoil in horror. I'm not going to do that anymore. However, I don't think any wll come to my door since the man with whom I am living says they never come here since he told them to F off.
Beryl