My wife can and does, (I.M.O) and much better than me. (As I have not been raised and fed in the JW trough and she was) She is a much better example of a good human being than I am. I learn a lot from her every day. She worries about herself and lets the world save itself. (As she should) She creates her happiness and ours, and she lets others do the same. She's a good example for living a good life. I'm glad she lets me be part of it.
Can a JW experience the Spirit of Christmas? Well, the Grinch did and I think that there is hope for everyone.