I am a second generation Jdub. My husband is also a second generation Jdub.
Both of us have mentally left the org and biding our time until we can make a formal exit.
We have many friends in the org that are on the so called "fringes".
Many of us in this situation have children. Our children are reaching the teen years. I can guarantee that most of our children will not pursue "the truf".
Indeed the exodus will continue at an alarming rate in the next 5 -10 years.
Perhaps it will be our children that will cause watchtowers demise.
I look forward to that day with eager anticipation.
wanna