It's the same guilt trip they have always used. It right up there with the african sister who crosses the crocodile infested river to get to the meeting.
The dilemma is this: who will take the responsability of taking the 89 year old sister out everyday?? Someone has to step up to the plate and "babysit".
There is a very old brother in my area. He is out every single day. He does not drive and is very bossy. Dubs shudder when its their turn to pick him up. No offence to seniors but he has become a burden on others.