Bluesapphire: Tasty = Gorgeous
Rosemarie, Hi!: I definitely believe sisters have a worse deal than men when it comes to elders looking into "fornication" matters. It's as if the guy is almost expected to sew his oats but, ah!, the girl shouldn't let him so she's more liable!!
I also believe many elders get off on hearing the juicy details: "How far did you go?", "How many times did you do it?", "Did you have oral sex?", etc. I bet the elders queue up for the juicy JCs! I remember one elder confiding in me (I was a well-thought of MS at the time) about a couple in our congregation. They were married to different partners but the wife of the guy spilled the beans on them. I got to learn some most intimate details and the elder was obviously enjoying himself telling me. So, yes, I'd say sisters do have it worse.
Dansk