Cold, very cold!
When I was married, I used to carry a picture of my, very beautiful, young, So. Cal. Redhead wife in my briefcase. When people saw her picture they always commented in a surprised manner that I had a very beautiful wife! It used to piss me off! Know why? What they were actually saying was, " I'm surprised a short, ugly guy like you has such a beautiful wife!" Mav*
*I've been told, by a number of people that I look like Steve Buscemi