Posts by bebu

  • azaria
    31

    ?I AM REALLY ANGRY!..and I need some advise!

    by azaria in
    1. jw
    2. friends

    i don't think i have to put a mood barometer here, you already know my mood.

    i'm kind of shaking at the moment so bear with me.

    thank goodness i typed this in wordperfect earlier and just pasted into here.. i hate the jehovahs witness organization (not the people) but the organization.

    1. Lady Lee
    2. Country_Woman
    3. azaria
  • bebu
    bebu

    ((azaria))

    I personally opt for writing. That way, I'll be able to explain myself the way I want after careful editing. And she won't be able to interrupt, or give some remark and look that derails your intention.

    When I broach a tough subject with someone with whom I wish to keep a relationship, I try to let them know that the info I've gotten (which now affects my position) is rather upsetting to me as well. I let them know I have been trying to solve it, but have been unable to do it. Invite your mom to see if she can provide an answer for you. She might rise to the occasion, do some asking/research, and actually be affected. Don't dump a lot--give her something provocative and let her do some legwork. Then add more if you can.

    Good luck. It does sound like a challenge...

    bebu

  • onacruse
    43

    Being "Smart" will not prevent one from following the WTS

    by onacruse in
    1. watchtower
    2. beliefs

    this weekend, while katie and i were at the beach, we both spent a little time reading coc (no, it wasn't a study lol ...i can honestly say that i did not favor the disfellowshipping decision made by the [governing] body.

    for when the vote came i conformed to the majority decision.

    i felt dismayed when the body assigned me to prepare mateiral in support of the decision, yet i accepted the assignment and wrote it as was desired by the body...my belief in the organization as god's only agency on earth caused me to do what i did at that time without particularly great qualms of conscience.. .

    1. nowisee
    2. onacruse
    3. Cameron
  • bebu
    bebu
    God cannot be anything but Good.

    I think we're on the same page. By 'waiting', I do not mean that they wait until somehow God becomes better. Just that those that hope for good will eventually discover it in God.

  • onacruse
    43

    Being "Smart" will not prevent one from following the WTS

    by onacruse in
    1. watchtower
    2. beliefs

    this weekend, while katie and i were at the beach, we both spent a little time reading coc (no, it wasn't a study lol ...i can honestly say that i did not favor the disfellowshipping decision made by the [governing] body.

    for when the vote came i conformed to the majority decision.

    i felt dismayed when the body assigned me to prepare mateiral in support of the decision, yet i accepted the assignment and wrote it as was desired by the body...my belief in the organization as god's only agency on earth caused me to do what i did at that time without particularly great qualms of conscience.. .

    1. nowisee
    2. onacruse
    3. Cameron
  • bebu
    bebu

    BTW, maybe I should clarify that I only knew 2 JWs growing up, and they were not very social. The rest were drones at my door, and all unable to think for themselves. I was so discouraged by such uniformity and stubbornness. I began to assume that JWs were UNABLE to be logical because they most likely had lower IQs. I just could not find a logical ? JW in my own experience.

    So I really do enjoy seeing the thoughts flowing freely, striving to be as clear as possible, even when I disagree at times.

    bebu